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LANGUAGE

“A foolish woman is clamorous – She is simple and knoweth nothing. So I said I will take heed to my ways that I sin not with my tongue.”

We, as M. G. T. [Asiatic Blackwomen], must strive to speak calmly, softly and distinctly. Your words should be carefully chosen and spoken in quiet tones (think five times before speaking).

Do not be snappy with others regardless of how you feel, as it shows weakness and lack of self control. Boisterous, loud voices are a sign of vulgarity and shows a lack of refinement. We do not laugh loud, but rather softly. Do not belittle others or laugh when they have made an error. Do not laugh when you have made an error, as it shows a lack of understanding on your part. It is also rude.

Do not become loud and boisterous when being corrected for an error you have made, rather take the correction calmly, intelligently and gracefully as this is a civilized attitude.

When making suggestions, to anyone, keep them in the form and tone of suggestions and do not make them sound like orders.

When in public, we keep our voices low and use proper words to express ourselves. This applies also when in the presence of brothers, speak softly to them, not loud or noisily.

Avoid anger, as it tends to make you lose control and possibly say things for which you may later be sorry. Anger brings out the worst in you. This is a negative emotion and it shows a lack of self control.

“And in their mouth was found no guile for they were without fault before the throne of God.”

Some Facts About “GOSSIP”

1. What’s easy to say may be hard to bear.

2. What you don’t see with your eyes, don’t invent with your mouth.

3. It’s easier to hear a secret than to keep it.

4. A tongue can be a dangerous weapon.

5. If you want to find out what’s happening in your house, talk to your neighbors.

6. Loose tongues are worse than wicked hands.

7. Our ears often don’t hear what our mouths say.

8. Run from gossip as you run from Danger.

9. Gossip is the most common of human habits and causes the most trouble.

10. People eat and drink together, yet pierce each other.

11. Your friend has a friend, and your friend’s friend has a friend (so be discreet).

12. From a man’s mouth you can tell what he is.

13. Gossip: Nature’s telephone.

14. The whisperer separates friends.

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