بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Properly Civilized Black Sisters! (And Brothers! 😉 )
As I was searching YT for a video of a Black woman teaching proper etiquette for the Dinner table, I came across this remarkably enlightening video from the sixties. History rewards research. Oh, how I long for the days when EVERYBODY was refined and cultured, respectful and courteous. This raunchy, plebeian world is not suitable for The Gods of the Universe (Black Nation) at all.
So, when I saw this video, reminiscent of a long forgotten time, I automatically clicked on it. However, I skipped past the beginning. The devil was so young – much too young to be courting. I couldn’t stomach watching him go through the process of asking an equally young girl devil out on a date. Even though, back in the early sixties, everything was much simpler in that ALL young women were still trained and brought up to be housewives and ALL young men inherently assumed their innate protector/provider responsibilities. Therefore, there was no confusion when it came to courting and marriage. It is overtly obvious from the very beginning of this video, (the young man is at work and the young woman is in the home) but so natural that it is also obvious that this is normal everyday expected behaviour.
These days, everything is completely out of order, in that we have deviated from our natural roles, at least have the common folk. The rich white devils however, still retain the level of civility and proper male/female character traits evidenced by the devils in this video. Their women still WANT to be housewives. They still see the importance of staying at home to rear the children and keep house. With alacrity, they allow their husbands to be MEN and go out and make a living to provide for and protect his family which is his NATURE.
The young devil man instinctively cared for and protected the young woman, who in this video was not even his wife, nor even a girlfriend. She was just a member of the female gender and he was a male. They both submitted to the natures in which they were made and these small gestures which came naturally and effortlessly, were so impressive and so unheard of nowadays, that it took me awhile to process what I had witnessed. But it makes so much sense that I feel foolish even having to explain. And this is the NATURAL BEHAVIOUR of men and women, but the ONLY place you will witness this type of behaviour among Black people is within The Nation of Islam.
Believe me when I tell you, Sisters, letting a Brother open doors for you takes some getting used to. We have been so conditioned to being “independent” and trying to be men (competing with them) that we don’t know how to act like the Queens that we are. We foolishly think, “I can open my own door! I don’t need anybody to open a door for me! pfffff!” And we throw open the door and get in the car, leaving the Brother standing there feeling useless.
Sisters, when a Brother is willing to be chivalrous and treat you with respect and honor, LET HIM! You deserve it. And they enjoy it! They like when you show appreciation for their courtesy. It makes them feel strong and powerful and men love to feel strong and powerful. 😉 That’s just how they are. We should relish our little power to make them feel powerful. They are KINGS and we are QUEENS. We each have our roles to fulfill. You wouldn’t see Queen Elizabeth opening her own door. WE HAVE TO LET OUR MEN BE MEN, Sisters. We were CREATED TO SUBMIT to them so they can protect us properly. It is our nature. They were created physically AND MENTALLY superior to us for a reason.
If your husband does not do these things for you, Sister, shower him with affection and tell him how strong and thoughtful it would be for him to do that type of thing for you. We must raise our standards. And the Brothers will respond accordingly. That is, if they want us. 😉 We will live much happier lives and much more peaceful lives when we accept this fact and be ourselves.
But the mentally dead walk around blind, deaf and dumb like savages, in jeans, t-shirts, tennis shoes and baseball caps; Black women in tight-fitting, revealing dresses above their knees with bleached blonde hair, trying to be what they think civilized white people look like from what they see on T.V. and in magazines. You will not find civilized, cultured, high-society members of the upper class on T.V., movies, magazines or anywhere in the entertainment industry, not even in politics. Members of the upper class finance entertainers and politicians, in order to enrich their own coffers. While the blind, deaf and dumb pay their hard-earned money to be entertained and ignorantly think they have a voice in politics by voting.
Cultured people are usually MUCH wealthier than people in the entertainment industry and civil service. Which is why money and fame does not equal cultured. Many people are rich and uncivilized and it is possible to be poor and cultured, however, neither condition lasts for very long. How many once-successful entertainers have died dirt poor?
Historically, cultured has ensured money and success. However, in this day and time that we are living, we are witnessing the END of the devil’s (Caucasian) rule and he is rapidly losing both his money and his wealth, also his prestige among the nations of the earth.
It is now time for the Black Nation to regain our position as the rulers of the Earth with the so-called American Negroes on top. You, Beloved Black Sisters and Brothers, have every opportunity to attain success and wealth with knowledge of your self and kind and by being yourself (A Righteous Muslim). Your inherent natural aggregate constitution guarantees success. However, if one has no knowledge of self, we cannot possibly be ourselves! So we take little or no care in our appearance and may go out in the public looking other-than-ourselves, usually like a slob, evidencing to the world, our sloppy thoughts. Consequently, our sloppy thoughts will determine our words and actions. Our appearance, thoughts, words and actions are what make up who we are. If all of these are sloppy, what will we attract? Equally sloppy people and sloppy surroundings.
We must change our thinking in order to improve our social standing. I’ve heard some people say that they changed their appearance before changing their thoughts. But I don’t buy that because something had to change in their thinking to make them want to change their appearance. The brain is the boss. A change in your thinking will result in a change in every aspect of life. Your Actions Will Change. You will start questioning the reason and purpose for everything you do and also the way that things that affect you. Even a slight change in thinking, (conviction will come later) results in viewing yourself with greater respect and higher regard.
Naturally, your new self-perception will be reflected in the way you represent yourself to the world – as someone worthy of respect and admiration. You will smoothly begin to take an increased interest in your appearance as well as your health, thus increasing your appeal to the people around you.
Your appeal will force a change in the language in which you choose to address your admirers who have higher expectations from someone who appears so refined. Foul, vile language does not become civilized people. You will never hear such filth from highly cultured and refined individuals. Profane language is a characteristic of a base, savage, illiterate person. The way we communicate our thoughts to the world through language (word choice) is a clear indication of our level of intelligence. We must demonstrate the greatest degree of intelligence at all times.
The acquisition of knowledge is paramount for the Black Nation. We Must Never Stop Learning. When we have exhausted the knowledge and wisdom of the planet Earth, then we can feel justified in ceasing. But by then we will be at least 900 years old, satiated with the knowledge of everything that is to come and not particularly inclined to see it come to pass.
The Blackman of America is a direct descendant of, and thus, the CREATOR of the Universe. He does not know this and of course, his slave-master will never tell him. He (the slave-master) was the person who killed him of this knowledge! As such, the Blackman has been forced to feign increased ignorance for a number of reasons during his entire stay in this Western Hemisphere, primarily to detract the devil’s attention from him and to minimize his responsibility to do the devil’s service.
This mentality was and is reinforced in the school system where the young Black God’s lack of interest in white supremacist curriculum has been deliberately misdiagnosed as stupidity. So now, he has convinced his own self that he is stupid. I have, on several occasions, witnessed adult Black men announce repeatedly, and with much conviction, that they were “stupid.” To my gnathonic ears, coupled with my unwavering love for and devotion to the Blackman, it was as if someone had scratched a chalkboard. The heavens may almost be rent thereat, and the earth cleave asunder, and the mountains fall down in pieces, that The God of The Universe is now calling himself “stupid.” 😥
We MUST change our way of thinking if we ever expect to be accepted by the civilized nations of the universe.
I desperately yearn for this type of cultured, refined and civilized human interaction to the point where I almost won’t venture out into the public for the surety of disappointment. I don’t eat out as a rule. But I could probably be persuaded to dine at a restaurant such as the one staged in this video, as long as the poison, filthy swine is not on the menu and it is Black owned.
If I may add, the young man should have asked the girl’s father if it was okay for him to take her out and the video should have shown the father’s resultant interrogation of the young man concerning his intentions for his daughter.
I love how the woman doesn’t say anything during the ordering process. The man handles EVERYTHING and all we have to do is sit there and look pretty. Allah is so Merciful; Infinitely WISE.