1. Wedding is a day. Marriage is a lifetime.

2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.

3. Practice Silence. Never be misquoted.

4. If you want what no one has had, you must do what no one has done.

5. When Allah wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Shaytan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life.

6. It is better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.

7. Avoid a contentious woman.

8. ٣ men to avoid:
a.) An emotional man.
b.) A womanizer.
c.) A man who exceeds limits (glutton.)

9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.

10. Never be yoked to anyone who is not yoked to Allah.

11. 3 phrases that guarantee Salaam (Peace) in a marriage:
a. I love you.
b. I am sorry.
c. Thank you.

12. Don’t waste your time dwelling on your singleness.

13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure.

14. Deal with anti-marriage feelings.

15. Masturbation is destruction.

16. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.

17. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will trample on your dreams.

18. A successful marriage is always a triangle:
Allah,
a man and a woman.

19. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.

20.  Happiness in life depends on your marital choice.

21. A man needs divine wisdom from Allah in choosing who to marry.

22. Do not place your priority on good looks; they may not last, furthermore, no Black Person is ugly, s/he just needs to practice ISLAM.

23. 3 major characteristics to look for in a woman:
a. Fear of Allah.
b. Wisdom.
c. Discretion
(preoccupation with one’s own beauty is vanity).

24. The best way to enslave a woman (enamour her to you) is to shower her with love excessively – as a rule, women do not run away from where they are pampered.

25. Love is not blind; infatuation and lust are blind.

26. Love puts Allah first; lust puts sex first.

27. Measure Love with your Peace of Mind;
If either is absent, Allah (Love) is not there.

28. If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends.

29. Caring hearts result in caring actions.

30. Desperation leads to frustration.

31. Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin.

32. Keep yourself pure and your bed undefiled.

33. It is spiritual insanity to plan to convert someone so you can marry the person.

34. Wage war against the devil that fought your parents’ marriage (if necessary.)

35. Marriage is a covenant, always look before you leap.

 

36. It is better to be single and believing Allah to be married than to be married and believing in Allah to be single.

37. A broken courtship is better than a failed marriage.

38. Do not marry money or property or looks
(material things, which do not last),
marry the person inside the person.

39. Be presentable.