بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum, Ikhwaan!!!

This is always a difficult topic for me… But With the Help of Allah…

1. Always allow the Brother to initiate…
2. Consider, what happens, and I know I’m jumping, but consider what happens AFTER, the wedding, namely, THE HONEYMOON!!! 🙂

1. You will surrender your rose to your zawji
2. You will likely, become impregnated with the future of our Nation. Yaaay!!! 🙂

Thus, you will also be tasked with their care, for the rest of your life. Yaaay!!!! They will feel the same way about you… 🙂

Regardless of what happens to your zawji, you will be responsible for yourself and your children, in the unlikely event…

That’s all! 🙂 Back to rainbows, butterflies, dolphins, flowers, honeybees, and hummingbird thoughts…