بسم الله الرحمان الرحیم

WHAT’S UP?

Basically this young girl was being courted and everything was progressing nicely until a turn of events catapulted her courtier into celebrity status.

Now she’s feeling super insecure because all of these girls are throwing themselves at her previously obscure “bf!!!”

I know firsthand how difficult this can be.

Remember he’s courting you so don’t let them get to you. HE’S COURTING YOU!

Not them. 😀

So don’t trip.

Relationships that last a lifetime are bound to have challenges.

The joy comes in working through them together.

You guys are just starting out. Don’t fall apart at the first hurdle.

Have a chaperoned sit down. Share a pot of tea and talk about it.

Be honest. Let him know how you feel. Listen to how he feels.

This a major change and you have to change together to make it last forever.

There will be many more over your lifetime so set a precedent and the next one will be easier.

Changes should always be looked at as Allah’s Way of making life interesting.

He’s shaking things up a bit to increase your strength. You two will be gilded together after the storm has passed you will be closer and more secure in each other.

View everything as an observer and watch the progression and evolution of your bond and the people around you.

You will find there is no need to feel catastrophic and will more than likely laugh about it TOGETHER.

Stay Up!

Umi

HIP-HOP FIFTY YEARS!!!