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WHAT’S UP??? 🙂
Honestly, I have been uplifting requests for advice from columnist “Annie” and honestly, I feel no guilt because my middle name used to be “Anita” 🙂
Typically, I have been answering letters that I did not agree with her advice or wanted to give an alternate suggestion or questions that she had no answer for.
But I read a letter yesterday, and I thought her advice was especially profound and useful that I would like to share it with you.
A Sister found out her husband, of over fifty years, had been infidelic a second time, which had yielded a second child.
This Sister was utterly heartbroken and extremely hurt by her husband’s infidelity and sought Annie’s advice.
Annie told her to prevent more heartbreak in the future, because who knows how many more children her unfaithful husband has, she should ask him to just come clean and admit a.) if there are more children and b.) what was his relationship with them and their mothers.
I thought that was especially wise advice because when the Sister took her vows, she told Allah and man, that she would remain with him through “good and bad” and I admit it really can’t get any worse than when he breaks his vows to you (“forsaking all others”).
She will just have to accept the role of “first wife” or “Queen” as contrasted with “concubine” and accept her husband, who hopefully is too old to continue his infidelic behavior and will finally be forced to honor his vows to her.
She did not mention as far as I can remember, if she and her husband had children.
But she can follow Rita’s example and many other women forced or willingly involved in polygamous marriages and accept her position with dignity, accept the children, who had no choice in the matter, and love them as her own, introduce them to her own children and just accept their love as a second mother.
❤ ❤ ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ ❤ ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ ❤ ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ ❤ ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ ❤ ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ ❤ ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ ❤ ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ ❤ ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ ❤ ❤
*** ALWAYS FIND THE POSITIVE. ***
Perhaps you can even find companionship with their mothers – who undoubtedly suffered heartbreak at the hands of your husband as well.
I’m envisioning graduation celebrations, weddings, and future childbirths WITH YOUR “EXTENDED FAMILY” 🙂
Always find and accentuate the positive and STAY UP! 🙂
امّي
HIS WIFE, MRS. BOB MARLEY (RITA) ACCEPTED HIS NUMEROUS CHILDREN BY OTHER WOMEN AS HER (THEIR) OWN AND LOOK AT / LISTEN TO THE BEAUTIFUL MUSIC!!! FYAH!!!!!! FYAH!!!!! FYAH!!!!!
❤ ❤ ❤ AND MORE LOVE FOR RITA!!! 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤
ASK YOURSELF – WHEN FACED WITH THE SITUATION AS THE SISTER – COULD YOU BE LOVED BY YOUR HUSBAND, HIS “ILLEGITIMATE” CHILDREN AND THEIR MOTHERS???
❤ ❤ ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ MORE LOVE ❤ ❤ ❤
❤ ❤ ❤ HAKIM HAKIM HAKIM HAKIM HAKIM HAKIM HAKIM HAKIM ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
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NO ONE WILL SEE YOUR COMMENT BUT ME.
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AND TELL YOUR SISTER I KNOW SHE CHANGED HER NAME TO SALIMAH 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤ MORE SALAAM ❤ ❤ ❤ MORE SALAAM ❤ ❤ ❤ MORE SALAAM ❤ ❤ ❤
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