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بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم
السلام علايكم و رحمت الله و بركت
الحمد الله
الله اكبر

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CHAPTER 78
AN ECONOMIC BLUEPRINT

1 The Black man in America faces a serious economic problem today and the white race’s Christianity cannot solve it. You, the so-called American Negro, with the help of Allah can solve your own problem. The truth must be recognized by the black man. He, himself, has assisted greatly in creating this serious problem of
unemployment, insecurity and lack. Before the black man can begin to gain economic security, he must be awakened from the dead and gain knowledge, understanding and wisdom which will enable him to follow my teachings. Islam and only Islam will point the way out of the entanglement of want in the midst of plenty for the
followers of Islam, the true religion of the black nation.


2 Know thyself and be yourself. Islam makes a true brother to brother. If this be true, how can a believer (Muslim) be a true brother to another believer and boycott his brother and support the enemy? The believers in truth, Islam, must stop looking up to the white race for justice and take the following steps to correct this problem.

3 Acknowledge and recognize that you are a member of the Creator’s nation and act accordingly. This action, in the name of Allah, requires you, as a Muslim, to set an example for the lost-found, your brothers in the wilderness in North America. This requires action and deeds, not words and lip service.

4 The following blueprint shows the way:

5 1. Recognize the necessity for unity and group operation (activities).

6 2. Pool your resources, physically as well as financially.

7 3. Stop wanton criticisms of everything that is black-owned and black-operated.

8 4. Keep in mind — jealousy destroys from within.

9 5. Observe the operations of the white man. He is successful. He makes no excuses for his failures. He works hard in a collective manner. You do the same.

10 If there are six or eight Muslims with knowledge and experience of the grocery business — pool your knowledge, open a grocery store — and you work collectively and harmoniously, Allah will bless you with success.

11 If there are those with knowledge of dressmaking, merchandising, trades, maintenance — pool such knowledge. Do not be ashamed to seek guidance and instructions from the brother or sister who has more experience, education and training than you have had. Accept his or her assistance.

12 The white man spends his money with his own kind, which is natural. You, too, must do this. Help to make jobs for your own kind. Take a lesson from the Chinese and Japanese and go give employment and assistance to your own kind when they are in need. This is the first law of nature. Defend and support your own kind. True Muslims do this.

13 Because the so-called American Negro has been deceived and misled, he has become a victim of deception. He is today in the worst economic condition of North America. Unemployment is mounting, and he feels it most. He assisted in reducing himself to his present insecure economic condition. You, the black man, are the only members of the human race that deliberately walk past the place of business of one of your own kind — a black man — and spend your dollars with your natural enemy. The so-called American Negro has never in the history of America been known to boycott or criticize the white man as he does his own kind. He thus shows love for his enemy and hatred for his own kind.

14 A true Muslim would never boycott the place of business of his fellow Muslim or black brother. A true Muslim is proud of the success of his black sisters and brothers. He recognizes that their success is his success. He recognizes the law of Islam. If one brother has a bowl of soup you have half of that soup.

FROM THE EDITOR:

As Salaam Alaikum Beloved Ukhtis! 🩷🥰🩷🥰😘

I pray Allah you are all well, wealthy and wise, as am I, الحمد الله

Growing up I never understood why fashion advisors like magazines and fashion shows always came out way before it was time.

We used to get our September Ebony magazine in August. Okay.

Now, I know it’s so you can go and do your shopping so that when the day arrives, you will be prepared.

The white man has made us fools in everything.

Doesn’t that seem obvious? I guess when you are pressed for money you feel lucky to get anything whenever. And, your brain doesn’t have the luxury of figuring out things like that.

I once complained to this white guy that my root beer float had hardly any ice cream in it.

He said, “It’s supposed to FLOAT.”

🥰🥰🥰🥰🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🥰🩷🥰🩷😘

So, for some reason I have really been agonizing about being raped.

I read that only one in four gets reported.

I reported and told them where to find him and everything but nothing happened.

So, I moved so I wouldn’t have to keep seeing him.

Someone told me that Stevie Wonder’s mother got raped but she said that her son is “The Answer To Her Prayers”

I feel like anytime a Sister is abandoned after she gives herself = RAPE.

People have different definitions.

Most people would say if she did it willingly it was not rape.

But if she was only willing because he LIED = RAPE.

So, I had to start my own SECRET SUPPORT GROUP FOR SURVIVORS OF MOLESTATION AND RAPE.

So far it’s just me and two other persons.

It is secret for so many reasons.

You see what happened when I told.

NO JUSTICE.

That’s not rape.

She wanted it.

I wish I could have too.

So I call us SURVIVORS.

Then many times there are children who don’t know the circumstances surrounding their conception…

Or why they have a “chemical imbalance” or other issues ???

Honey, your father raped your mother…

And how do you tell someone that they are the product of rape ???

And that is the reason for everything wrong in your life…. ?

Then there are the Brothers…

Which I am praying Allah to please help me to help them…

SECRET SURVIVORS OF RAPE AND MOLESTATION SUPPORT GROUP

Open a new secret email 🥹 and

email: HAKIMandKABIRAH@gmail.com

Uhebu 🥰🩷🥰🩷🥰🩷😘

امي

HOW TO REAR OUR CHILDREN:

I am at the mall in my usual spot and there’s this lady and her toddler and an older child, a teenager.

I had just seen them in the bookstore and all I hear is the toddler “…but I love you…”

Then the mother tries to explain whatever.

I ask what’s wrong. She says the toddler wants her to pick her up.

I say “So pick her up”

She tells me it’s a bookstore and she wants her toddler to browse.

I say Just pick her up.

Now, I realize what I couldn’t think of at the time.

She is a TODDLER!

You be her legs and she will be better able to browse. But right now she needs some affection and is not concerned about browsing.

Sidenote: DO NOT I repeat DO NOT take your children to the mall if you don’t have any money!!!

They don’t understand you just wanna hang out.

I don’t have enough money and I can’t afford it might as well be a foreign language to a child.

Those statements translate to “Then why tf are we (still) here?”

When they passed by just now she picked the baby up, but it was something else now.

I said “Get her a slushee.”

Then the baby said “I want a slushee.”

And the mom kept walking past the slushee store.

But she is the stuck up type who will go back later just to make it seem like it was her idea and not mine.

As long as the baby gets her slushee 🥰🥰🥰

Of course the REAL Problem is the absence of the father… 🥹🥺😥😢

HOW TO TAKE CARE OF OUR HUSBANDS:

Beloved Ukhtis:

I used to keep this type of information SECRET.

And I know I just really got your attention.

Whenever I am talking to someone and I tell them that, they know I am about to change their life and their eyes get really wide and bright, they lean toward me and every pore in their skin opens up to receive the information.

So, to Muslims who are avid in their studies do not be angry with me because this is a reference tool to, in sha Allah, guide readers to seek deeper knowledge. 😊😍😘😄

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/zuYNJphV3iFniieD/?mibextid=Le6z7H

HOW TO SEW / FASHION TRENDS:

BALLET FLATS fully cover your feet comfortable practical CUTE!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🩷🩷🩷

When I was in Junior High, flats were en vogue but they were pointy toed. We aren’t supposed to wear pointy toed shoes. I don’t think it’s healthy. Feet are not pointy. So I’m not going to try to put them in pointy shoes. Just because they may be cute. I will find some cute shoes that make sense.

So ballet shoes are always round toes because they put that round piece of wood in the toe.

That is another thing I wanted to do when I was younger. Ballet. I got to put my daughter in Ballet AND TAP!!! 🥰🩷🥰🩷🥰 So الحمد الله Al Hamdulillah If you notice both ballet and tap shoes ALWAYS have rounded toes.

That let’s you know that round toes shoes are the best if people who depend on their feet for such activity as ballet and tap always wear ROUNDED TOES SHOES to protect and properly care for their feet.

(In Sha Allah, I will take a ballet class)

Notice the colours. The lavender looks very current for Autumn. It’s not a bright springy lavender but a more ash lavender. Like grayish. The olive oil shoe on the left is nice as well in the patent “leather.”

btw I don’t believe patent leather is made from animal skins. Just a hunch.

These are not technically flats but I categorize them with them.

As long as the heel is less than two inches.

I would steer clear of square toed flats because they are very masculine!

These brick coloured ballet flats are perfect for the AUTUMN.

That reminds me. BRB

They like to make slingbacks in flats also.

But don’t fall for them LOL pun intended.

You AUTUMN with some ROUND TOED FULLY ENCLOSED CUTE FLAT OR LOW-HEELED shoes

He’s talking about a light skinned girl because they are the only ones who get sunburned

M.I.A. O.M.G.!!!!

HOW TO COOK:
Chinese and Japanese Dishes Must Use ZANZIBIR like Mexican Dishes Must Use CILANTRO!!!

HOW TO ACT:

I suppose I should start with POSTURE…. But…

First, let me say this, IN CONVERSATION, last time I mentioned that NUMBER ONE in human interaction is GREET EACH OTHER.

SO SIMPLE, RIGHT?

“As-Salaaamu ‘Alaikum”

“Peace”

And a smile. 🙂

If you are able to get your Sister to spare some of her time in today’s rush to nowhere,

Be sure to show genuine concern when inquiring into her well-being,

“How are you??”

And then reply to her response. Build on it. “What’s been going on?” “Tell me about it…” “Really, what was that like?”

A lot of times in today’s society, most people neglect to “And you?”

The greetings have become so IMPERSONAL. You don’t really care. Just chit chat…

Make sure you “AND YOU?” 🥰🥰🥰😘

COMMON COURTESY….

When I was little, I did sort of get “charm school training” like how to pose for photographs.

I really like this one, because Mary has on FLATS!!!

I plan to make a list of what’s HOT for AUTUMN, and FLATS are definitely on the list.

I don’t make the current trends, but I have an eye for what people are choosing to wear and I am noticing a huge UPTICK in FLATS for next season. Just a teaser! 🙂

I met some Sisters on HIP-HOP’S FIFTY-FIRST and one of them had on some shoes exactly like we used to wear in the early eighties. Flats were en vogue back then as well.

I asked her if they were a brand called MIA.

She looked at me like WTH are you talking about??? LOL

I was like “nm.” :/

Link to Mia website above

Flats are SOOOOOOO much better for your health. I saw SHEILA E’s “UNSUNG” and she almost died from so many years of wearing high heels.

brb

Here’s the link

https://vimeopro.com/user15889254/unsung/video/203031264

ONE MORE WEEK OF BLACK AUGUST UNIVERSAL HIP-HOP MONTH!!!!! KEEEEP ONNNNNN!!!! They said it wouldn’t last. It’s just a fad. FIFTY-ONE YEARS, BABY!!!!! AND WE WON’T STOP!!!!!

One more week to get your Doctor Ice Cream Cone LOL!!! 🥰🥰🥰🩷🩷🩷🩷🍦🍦🍦

I read Diana Ross’ book, Mary Wilson’s book and Berry Gordy’s book.

I could cry the 139,685,000 square miles of the Earth’s water one hundred times and still cry some more and will not have shed enough tears for the injustices that Florence Ballard suffered.

😢😥🥺😭

Mary said when they started, they all sang lead.

Then she and Florence became Diane’s backup singers.

Florence wanted to quit but she stayed because of Mary. Group Loyalty….

Then she got raped and started drinking.

And on top of all that… She was MURDERED.

Here is her daughter.

“Honey, your father raped your mother…”

I started a Secret Support Group for SURVIVORS of Molestation and Rape.

It’s all online so you can stay anonymous…

Email: HAKIMandKABIRAH@gmail.com

It is only open for Black People.

It is open for ALL BLACK PEOPLE…


https://youtu.be/wR8YdHPTjCg?feature=shared

This is THE FIRST BLACK MODEL TO GAIN FAME IN AMERICA. Her name is HELEN WILLIAMS. It was in the nineteen-fifties.

If you notice, the pose almost looks as if you are mid-stride.

One foot behind the other and both tilted at different angles.

The best and most modest thing, in my humble opinion, to do with your hands would be to just fold them in front.

You can also just let your arms and your hands rest at your sides.

But these are superstars and supermodels, so YOU KNOW they have got to POSE!!! LOL! 🙂

ARMS ALL UP IN THE AIR LIKE MR. MESEEKS “LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME!!! ” LOLOLOL!!! 🙂 🙂

This Brother posted the most adorable picture of his fourteen-year-old at her graduation or something and she looks so ELEGANT.

It was obvious she had been groomed properly.

I wish I had saved that photograph.

Her pose was perfect.

*sigh*

I also learned how to curtsy when I was younger and believe it to be the most proper way to greet an elder.

In Leimert, we have “Queen Mothers” and “BaBas.”

In addition to “Sir” and “Ma’am” we should curtsy when greeting our community leaders.

Peep how the devils courtesy/curtsy to all the other nationalities!

Brothers, the salute is too military and attached to war. A slight bow or low bow is sufficient and dignified.

I was trying to find a proper tutorial because the devils in this video and even other nationalities don’t really do it right.

First, your mentality has to be respectful and conscious of the reason why this person deserves a courtesy.

Second, your clothing. A courtesy always includes the lifting of the skirt to the side.

Remember at the end of the Oprah Winfrey show? She did a proper courtesy. You have to be wearing a dress.

All girls or members of the female family are required to wear ankle-length dresses at all times.

Trousers, pants and britches are for males.

What’s Up?

Q: My husband insists that I don’t wear makeup. When I look in the mirror I see a monster. What to do?

Answer: Look in the mirror TOGETHER.

I know a lot of girls have issues with not wearing makeup.

It is “low self esteem” that is the term I always heard.

We have this image in our minds of what is supposed to be beautiful due to the media bombarding us with images of ugly devil Caucasians and we think “She was chosen to be on television so she must be what most people think is beautiful! I am going to try to look like her!”

Thus all of our esteem for our own looks dwindles down to nothing or worse. We think our own self looks like a monster!

My advice regarding anything physical begins with your diet.

The foods you eat determine what you think

I will repeat. THE FOODS YOU EAT DETERMINE YOUR THOUGHTS.

Give up all meat and all meat byproducts such as gelatin, boar’s hair brushes, leather, suede, etc.

The next thing I would do would be to gradually transition to less makeup then to none.

If you wear eye shadow, switch gradually to shades that are near to your skin color then stop using it at all.

If you wear eye liner, same thing.

If you wear the false lashes, switch to mascara then when you feel comfortable, look in the mirror and go out without it.🥰

There are other ways to dress up your eyes without adding anything.

Just shape your eyebrows and be sure to get enough rest so that there is no accumulation of fluid “bags.”

If you wear foundation, that goes back to your diet. When you begin eating correctly, it will change your mindset regarding your skin colour, texture and sheen.

In the Nation of Islam, we have what is referred to as The Muslim “GLOW.”

Black people used to be mocked “shine” and we began to believe that our GLOW was something to be ashamed of and needed to be covered up.

White people do this all the time. They will tell the most beautiful black girl to her face that she is ugly. Or other Black people will tell her she is ugly.

Because she is usually young and impressionable, she doesn’t know that they are just saying that because they are ENVIOUS of her beauty.

I remember the first time I overheard a Brother say that I was “cute.”

I was SHOCKED. And my spirit SOARED.

That was in Leimert 🥰🥰🥰

Another time, this white lady said “we can’t all be as beautiful as you.” 🤯

I feel kind of lucky that I came of age in the nineties when natural shades and matte were en vogue. Also NATURALNESS in general was popular. Hair. No makeup BLACK PRIDE.

This one Brother got a job being in a commercial and he said he was not going to let them put makeup on him.

After he filmed it he said they went along with him and he didn’t get fired.

NO MAKEUP.

So improving your diet will cure your dependency on foundation and rouge/blush.

Lipstick! Natural shades then no shade. Maybe a little gloss. Then no gloss. 🩷🩷🩷🥰🥰🥰🥰

You can also accessories and wear your hair in a way that enhances your natural beauty.

Some nice pearl earrings and matching necklace with your hair up and some cat-eye sunglasses will hide the fact (to your brain) that you don’t have any makeup on LOL!!!

Or you can wear your hair down and cover your face! Muslimas cover our hair and generally don’t have these issues but you can wear a big floppy or wide brimmed hat and sunglasses until you build up your confidence!

Also, lastly, give yourself a facial regularly and sneak up on yourself with no makeup on in the mirror until you see your own beauty. STOP WATCHING THE BOOB TUBE.

I just realized I have never posted a diy facial blog.

They are really simple.

The most important part is the AMBIANCE.

Set up candles, incense, jazz and make sure you have at least thirty minutes of Peace.

Then deep clean your skin. I have a recipe for Black Soap shampoo that works, it has olive oil, aloe vera, I will try to find the link later In Sha Allah.

Squeeze or scratch all the white stuff out of the pores in and around your nose. You can push your nose up and it’ll come out.

I am about to Google what that stuff is. BRB

It’s OIL. LOL! Like DUH!! 🤣 😂🥰🩷🩷🩷

AKA Pus.

Then you want to use something like alcohol on a cotton ball. I don’t know what astringent means. Sounds like “I’m going to stringe/skringe all that dirt out of your face!” LOL!

Then most people feel like you need to do something that has to sit on your face awhile like a “mask” or something. So that would go here.

I’m pretty sure I have some “masks” on here somewhere….

ان شاء الله I will post some links later.

So sit back and enjoy some Marsalis and chai while your “mask” marinates.🥰🥰🥰🩷🩷🩷

After you remove the mask, you moisturize. My favorites are shea butter and olive oil. You should sort of massage it into your skin.

And that’s it!

When you pamper yourself like that it cannot help but boost your self-esteem next thing you know, you will be wondering at how your bank account is never overdrawn anymore and you realize its because you haven’t been wasting all that money on makeup!

What’s Up?

My son recently started talking to me after years of estrangement. He is out of High School and feels “entitled” to a share of my wealth.

I give him well above the median household income and have offered to set him up with a business yet he says “It is not enough. What to do?

Answer: It’s not about the Benjamin’s, Baby.

You two need to spend time together. TIME. More valuable than gold.

He doesn’t know how to verbalize his feelings.

But as a FATHER (PROTECTOR/PROVIDER) you need to give him everything he wants.

Thank Allah for BLESSING you with a SON.

الحمد الله

And try to work it out with his MOTHER! 🥰🩷🥰🩷🥰🩷🥰

What do you think?