بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

MIN AL RASUL ALLAH

MIN AL MUBALAGAH

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum My Beloved and Beautiful Sisters!

Summer did not want to go out, but like all other SUMMERS – WE WILL SEE YOU NEXT YEAR: In Sha Allah.

Welcome Autumn.

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE AU WORDS!!!! I MADE A LIST!

SHOUT OUT TO BROTHER JAH AURA – I originally was consulted on the spelling of your name “Just spell it the way you spell it” 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤ I like how you made it your own.

AUTUMN
AUDIENCE
AUSPICIOUS
AUSTIN
AUESOME 🙂
AUDACIOUS
AUDIO
AUSTRALIA
AUTHENTIC
AUXILIARY
AUTHORITY
AUDIBLE
AU REVIOR
AUNT
AUSTERE
AUTO – MOBILE, BIOGRAPHY, CRAT, GRAPH, MATIC, NOMOUS
AUBURN
AUDREY

🙂 🙂 🙂

My project now is to research poetry on this wonderful SEASON 🙂

GUESS? – WHAT’S UP?

QUESTION: My fiance’s bff makes me uncomfortable.
ANSWER: You cannot marry him – FUTURE PROBLEMS. STAY UP THO. To give you more reason, Sister. Consider this. Usually a person’s friends are an indication of that persons character. Your fiance is BEST friends with this person who makes you uncomfortable. Take his choice of a BEST FRIEND as a good indication of your fiance’s character.
Birds of a feather….
Unfortunately, a person’s true colours may not be revealed until after you have gotten in over your head.
Get out now.
My advice is always to adhere to RED FLAGS.
THE FIRST RED FLAG.
There are plenty of fish in the sea. MARRIAGE IS FOREVER. Your fiance’ comes with his bff.
You can give him an ultimatum. Talk about it but be firm in your decision. BEST friend is not a casual acquaintance.

I am afraid he may be deceiving you, Dear Sister. Ultimately ONLY YOU can protect YOU.

MARRIAGE MEANS YOU ARE ONE-HALF OF YOU NOW AND FOREVER. And thus, less able to protect yourself iow in an inferiour position. Especially to a BEST FRIEND.
You or the homie. He will have to cut one of you loose. Or you cut him loose and save yourself before you find yourself singing “Tyrone.”

I know it is not easy. But it will be more difficult later.

Best wishes for the future. Don’t compromise yourself. It will only get worse. MARRIAGE IS FOREVER!
STAY UP! 🙂

***NOTE:***
Sisters, please do not “like” a Brother until you are sure that he likes you.
It is so easy when you accept that
HE HAS TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.***

QUESTION: My boss hired relative and now I’m ignored.
ANSWER: As with all work related problems, you have two options.
#1 Stay and pray things get better
#2 Give your two weeks and two fingers 🙂

I always recommend working for yourself anyway. You can take your skills and become your own boss and won’t have to stress. Stay Up!

Please let me know if you follow any of my suggestions. I would like to know how it worked… Shukran! 🙂

SPOTLESS:

Colder seasons approaching and I absolutely LOOOOVE HALAL S’MORES!!!! 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤

S’MORE SEASON
* HALAL MARSHMALLOWS
* CHOCOLATE BARS
* HONEY CINAMMON GRAHAMS
* LONG WIRE (CAN BE PURCHASED AT ART STORES OR HARDWARE STORES)
MMMMMMMMM……. 🙂

THEY HAVE THIS AT WALMART

MAKE SURE TO GET HALAL/KOSHER!!!!

F.O.I.

BELOVED BROTHERS: WHILE PROTECTING US, PLEASE TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR OWN POST FIRST!
PROTECT YOURSELF FIRST! THEN AND ONLY THEN; YOU CAN PROTECT US.

HOW TO TAKE CARE OF OUR HUSBAND.

I don’t have one so you can take my advice with whatever amount of trust you feel.
But this is what I would do. 🙂

1. Keep his (and your) house immaculate.
   2. Always have a healthy and delicious meal prepared.
   3. Never allow his clothes to accumulate in the hamper. Keep mended/tailored.
   4. If there is a child (or children); always keep clean, neat, well-groomed, educated and well-behaved.
   

JUNIOURZ:

She needs a sk8parkskullee 🙂

HAVE YOUR CHILDREN PREP A PRESENTATION: “WHAT I DID DURING THE SUMMER”
It can be written, visual, audio or a painting, or anything they can conceive.

I think it would be cool if we all did it. 🙂

I did it.

WHAT I DID THIS SUMMER – BY UMM HAKIM

• CREATED A BRAND “SK8PARK 💀eez”
• BEACHED
• ARTWORK
• KILLED THREE FROGS and a FREE RANGE EGG
• PRACTICED UKELELE
• GARDENED
• TAI JI GONG FU
• CREATED BLOGAZINE – “THE PREVENTATIVE NURSE” 🙂

That’s about it.

Super Proud of myself. I felt shy about posting it. But if I want you to do; I believe in leading by example.
I don’t think anyone should ask anyone to do anything that they themselves have not done.
Especially educators. Every assignment should be completed by the instructor also.

Dig this. Why do teachers need a guide?

So yeah, I would love to hear how you spent your SUMMER 2025.
Email – whatsup@homemakingfortheblackwoman.com!!!

FASHION PLATES:

I really want to devote an entire issue to AUTUMN FASHIONZ so please stay tuned…. 🙂

Meanwhile…..

I searched LOUNGEWEAR thinking AUTUMN COOL DAYZ INDOORZ AND FOUND…

ATTERSEE….

THE PRICES ARE BANANAS BUT IF YOU SEW….. 🙂 🙂 ❤ ❤

The jist is form fitting to loose bell and assymetrical hems in JERSEY KNIT. 🥰

SPOONZ:

Someone on my fb timeline posted seeing more sick people and more people breaking out masks again.

I also noticed COLT’S FOOT growing around the neighborhood.

It only grows where necessary.

For that reason, I am reposting a cure for
*colds/influenza
*cough

CORONA VIRUS DISEASE IS A SUPERGERM.

ESSENTIALLY IT IS A COMMON COLD BUT LIKE ON STEROIDS.

INFLUENZA IS A BACTERIA. MORE CONTAGIOUS THAN A VIRUS WITHIN YOUR BODY.

SUPERGERMS HAVE EVOLVED TO THE POINT WHERE MODERN PHARMACEUTICALS (IN PILLS AND LIQUID FORM) ARE USELESS AGAINST THEM.

WHOLISTIC NATURAL REMEDIES ARE THE ONLY WAY TO KILL THEM.

PLEASE DO NOT PROCRASTINATE.
IT IS MUCH EASIER TO GET RID OF AN ILLNESS IN THE WEAK, PRELIMINARY STAGES THAN TO TRY TO FIGHT IT OFF AFTER IT HAS GROWN IN STRENGTH AND SICKNESS.

USE THE REMEDY AT THE FIRST COUGH, STUFFY NOSE, PLEASE DO NOT LET IT PROGRESS TO FEVER!!!!

KEEP IN YOUR APOTHECARY –

• Tea Tree Oil
• Alternatives to Tea Tree – Euc; Peppermint; Camphor
• Lavender (Fresh or Oil)
• Salt
• Milk (Dairy Products)
• Small White “Navy” Beans
• Extra Virgin Olive Oil
• Isopropyl Alcohol
• Hydrogen Peroxide
• Vinegar (any kind)

• Fresh Lemon
• Fresh Ginger
• Fresh Garlic
• Sage (any kind)
• Incense (Frank is best)
• HONEY
• Cayenne
• Medical tape / Gauze
• Cotton Balls
• White (Aromatic if possible) Candles
• Soothing Instrumental Music (smooth jazz, lofi, Chinese flute, Mozart, Hula, &.)

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BEST SAWCE!!! 🙂
VINIAGRETTE + CREAM ❤ ❤ ❤
Feel free to add erbs or other garniche

ETIQUETTE:

ALWAYS SIT LIKE GOOD GIRLS!

THE IMAGE ON THE LEFT IS THE CORRECT ONE.
DO NOT CROSS LEGS. IT IS BAD FOR YOUR CIRCULATION.
JUST SIT STRAIGHT WITH YOUR KNEES TOGETHER.

FEET FLAT ON THE FLOOR.
VERY BORING. VERY HOMEY.
VERY RIGHT AND EXACT.
🙂
Notice the spine in the image. Very correct, ensuring no back problems!

IN CONCLUSION…