بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

MIN AL RASUL ALLAH

MIN AL MUBALAGAH

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum My Beloved and Beautiful Sisters!

Summer did not want to go out, but like all other SUMMERS – WE WILL SEE YOU NEXT YEAR: In Sha Allah.

Welcome Autumn.

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE AU WORDS!!!! I MADE A LIST!

SHOUT OUT TO BROTHER JAH AURA – I originally was consulted on the spelling of your name “Just spell it the way you spell it” 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤ I like how you made it your own.

AUTUMN
AUDIENCE
AUSPICIOUS
AUSTIN
AUESOME 🙂
AUDACIOUS
AUDIO
AUSTRALIA
AUTHENTIC
AUXILIARY
AUTHORITY
AUDIBLE
AU REVIOR
AUNT
AUSTERE
AUTO – MOBILE, BIOGRAPHY, CRAT, GRAPH, MATIC, NOMOUS
AUBURN
AUDREY

🙂 🙂 🙂

My project now is to research poetry on this wonderful SEASON 🙂

GUESS? – WHAT’S UP?

QUESTION: My fiance’s bff makes me uncomfortable.
ANSWER: You cannot marry him – FUTURE PROBLEMS. STAY UP THO. To give you more reason, Sister. Consider this. Usually a person’s friends are an indication of that persons character. Your fiance is BEST friends with this person who makes you uncomfortable. Take his choice of a BEST FRIEND as a good indication of your fiance’s character.
Birds of a feather….
Unfortunately, a person’s true colours may not be revealed until after you have gotten in over your head.
Get out now.
My advice is always to adhere to RED FLAGS.
THE FIRST RED FLAG.
There are plenty of fish in the sea. MARRIAGE IS FOREVER. Your fiance’ comes with his bff.
You can give him an ultimatum. Talk about it but be firm in your decision. BEST friend is not a casual acquaintance.

I am afraid he may be deceiving you, Dear Sister. Ultimately ONLY YOU can protect YOU.

MARRIAGE MEANS YOU ARE ONE-HALF OF YOU NOW AND FOREVER. And thus, less able to protect yourself iow in an inferiour position. Especially to a BEST FRIEND.
You or the homie. He will have to cut one of you loose. Or you cut him loose and save yourself before you find yourself singing “Tyrone.”

I know it is not easy. But it will be more difficult later.

Best wishes for the future. Don’t compromise yourself. It will only get worse. MARRIAGE IS FOREVER!
STAY UP! 🙂

***NOTE:***
Sisters, please do not “like” a Brother until you are sure that he likes you.
It is so easy when you accept that
HE HAS TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.***

QUESTION: My boss hired relative and now I’m ignored.
ANSWER: As with all work related problems, you have two options.
#1 Stay and pray things get better
#2 Give your two weeks and two fingers 🙂

I always recommend working for yourself anyway. You can take your skills and become your own boss and won’t have to stress. Stay Up!

Please let me know if you follow any of my suggestions. I would like to know how it worked… Shukran! 🙂

SPOTLESS:

Colder seasons approaching and I absolutely LOOOOVE HALAL S’MORES!!!! 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤

S’MORE SEASON
* HALAL MARSHMALLOWS
* CHOCOLATE BARS
* HONEY CINAMMON GRAHAMS
* LONG WIRE (CAN BE PURCHASED AT ART STORES OR HARDWARE STORES)
MMMMMMMMM……. 🙂

THEY HAVE THIS AT WALMART

MAKE SURE TO GET HALAL/KOSHER!!!!

F.O.I.

BELOVED BROTHERS: WHILE PROTECTING US, PLEASE TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR OWN POST FIRST!
PROTECT YOURSELF FIRST! THEN AND ONLY THEN; YOU CAN PROTECT US.

HOW TO TAKE CARE OF OUR HUSBAND.

I don’t have one so you can take my advice with whatever amount of trust you feel.
But this is what I would do. 🙂

1. Keep his (and your) house immaculate.
   2. Always have a healthy and delicious meal prepared.
   3. Never allow his clothes to accumulate in the hamper. Keep mended/tailored.
   4. If there is a child (or children); always keep clean, neat, well-groomed, educated and well-behaved.
   

JUNIOURZ:

She needs a sk8parkskullee 🙂

HAVE YOUR CHILDREN PREP A PRESENTATION: “WHAT I DID DURING THE SUMMER”
It can be written, visual, audio or a painting, or anything they can conceive.

I think it would be cool if we all did it. 🙂

I did it.

WHAT I DID THIS SUMMER – BY UMM HAKIM

• CREATED A BRAND “SK8PARK 💀eez”
• BEACHED
• ARTWORK
• KILLED THREE FROGS and a FREE RANGE EGG
• PRACTICED UKELELE
• GARDENED
• TAI JI GONG FU
• CREATED BLOGAZINE – “THE PREVENTATIVE NURSE” 🙂

That’s about it.

Super Proud of myself. I felt shy about posting it. But if I want you to do; I believe in leading by example.
I don’t think anyone should ask anyone to do anything that they themselves have not done.
Especially educators. Every assignment should be completed by the instructor also.

Dig this. Why do teachers need a guide?

So yeah, I would love to hear how you spent your SUMMER 2025.
Email – whatsup@homemakingfortheblackwoman.com!!!

FASHION PLATES:

I really want to devote an entire issue to AUTUMN FASHIONZ so please stay tuned…. 🙂

Meanwhile…..

I searched LOUNGEWEAR thinking AUTUMN COOL DAYZ INDOORZ AND FOUND…

ATTERSEE….

THE PRICES ARE BANANAS BUT IF YOU SEW….. 🙂 🙂 ❤ ❤

The jist is form fitting to loose bell and assymetrical hems in JERSEY KNIT. 🥰

SPOONZ:

Someone on my fb timeline posted seeing more sick people and more people breaking out masks again.

I also noticed COLT’S FOOT growing around the neighborhood.

It only grows where necessary.

For that reason, I am reposting a cure for
*colds/influenza
*cough

CORONA VIRUS DISEASE IS A SUPERGERM.

ESSENTIALLY IT IS A COMMON COLD BUT LIKE ON STEROIDS.

INFLUENZA IS A BACTERIA. MORE CONTAGIOUS THAN A VIRUS WITHIN YOUR BODY.

SUPERGERMS HAVE EVOLVED TO THE POINT WHERE MODERN PHARMACEUTICALS (IN PILLS AND LIQUID FORM) ARE USELESS AGAINST THEM.

WHOLISTIC NATURAL REMEDIES ARE THE ONLY WAY TO KILL THEM.

PLEASE DO NOT PROCRASTINATE.
IT IS MUCH EASIER TO GET RID OF AN ILLNESS IN THE WEAK, PRELIMINARY STAGES THAN TO TRY TO FIGHT IT OFF AFTER IT HAS GROWN IN STRENGTH AND SICKNESS.

USE THE REMEDY AT THE FIRST COUGH, STUFFY NOSE, PLEASE DO NOT LET IT PROGRESS TO FEVER!!!!

KEEP IN YOUR APOTHECARY –

• Tea Tree Oil
• Alternatives to Tea Tree – Euc; Peppermint; Camphor
• Lavender (Fresh or Oil)
• Salt
• Milk (Dairy Products)
• Small White “Navy” Beans
• Extra Virgin Olive Oil
• Isopropyl Alcohol
• Hydrogen Peroxide
• Vinegar (any kind)

• Fresh Lemon
• Fresh Ginger
• Fresh Garlic
• Sage (any kind)
• Incense (Frank is best)
• HONEY
• Cayenne
• Medical tape / Gauze
• Cotton Balls
• White (Aromatic if possible) Candles
• Soothing Instrumental Music (smooth jazz, lofi, Chinese flute, Mozart, Hula, &.)

***************************************************************************************************************

BEST SAWCE!!! 🙂
VINIAGRETTE + CREAM ❤ ❤ ❤
Feel free to add erbs or other garniche

ETIQUETTE:

ALWAYS SIT LIKE GOOD GIRLS!

THE IMAGE ON THE LEFT IS THE CORRECT ONE.
DO NOT CROSS LEGS. IT IS BAD FOR YOUR CIRCULATION.
JUST SIT STRAIGHT WITH YOUR KNEES TOGETHER.

FEET FLAT ON THE FLOOR.
VERY BORING. VERY HOMEY.
VERY RIGHT AND EXACT.
🙂
Notice the spine in the image. Very correct, ensuring no back problems!

IN CONCLUSION…

BISMILLAHI RAHMANI RAHIM

Min Al Rasullallah:

Min Al Mubalagah:

Guess?

The leaders of KOREA and RUSSIA had Shai!

Spotless:

Install BIDETs

Juniourz:

Teach to BIDET

F.O.I.:

FASHION PLATES:

sk8r couples gear:

SPOONZ:

SHAI: YAZMIN ZAN

ETIQUETTE:

Parents NEVER EVER EVER make your children feel like they owe YOU!!!

YOU OWE THEM FOREVER.

SUPPORT

ENCOURAGEMENT

GUIDANCE AND ADVICE

MONEY WHENEVER THEY NEED IT.

Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim

BISMILLAHI RAHMANI RAHIM

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LET US BRING HER HOME!!!

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
السلام علايكم و الرحمت الله و البركت
الحمد لله سبحن الله الله اكبر

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum My Beautiful and Beloved Asiatic Black Ukhti of THE GREAT TRIBE OF SHABAZZ OF THE NATION OF ISLAM! ❤ ❤ ❤

I got the email for the website as you can see above, so if you have any questions or comments PLEASE hit me up! 🙂

I have a few questions to answer, but this one seems so important, I am going to address it, with the Help of Allah, first:

Domestic Abuse:

If the person is not your LEGAL SPOUSE, just break up with him or her.
He or she has issues that need to be resolved before growing into a deeper relationship. So get out NOW!
I would advise the person to seek professional help and then… you can call me again… ❤ ❤ ❤

MALIKAHALI.COM

She is Muslimah and has a degree from IVY LEAGUE UNIVERSITY – PENNSYLVANIA STATE.

I was erroneously calling her a PSYCHOANALYST. She quickly corrected me. She is a PSYCHOTHERAPIST.

There is a big difference between ANALYSIS and THERAPY.

Analysis is just what is sounds like. Diagnosis if you are lucky.
She not only analizes and diagnoses, but she provides a SOLUTION, in the form of PSYCHOTHERAPY.

Give her a call. 🙂

*SUPER BONUS* All of her prescriptions are HERBAL!!! YES!!!! She has designed and manufactured a special formula of herbs and plant-based remedies for every psychological ailment!

According to the HOLY QUR’AN, physical discipline by a husband toward his errant wife has distinct STEP BY STEP instructions.

1. ADMONISH
2. LEAVE THEM ALONE IN THE BED
3. ARBITRATION
   

اَلرِّجَالُ قَوّٰمُوۡنَ عَلَی النِّسَآءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللّٰہُ بَعۡضَہُمۡ عَلٰی بَعۡضٍ وَّ بِمَاۤ اَنۡفَقُوۡا مِنۡ اَمۡوَالِہِمۡ ؕ فَالصّٰلِحٰتُ قٰنِتٰتٌ حٰفِظٰتٌ لِّلۡغَیۡبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ اللّٰہُ ؕ وَ الّٰتِیۡ تَخَافُوۡنَ نُشُوۡزَہُنَّ فَعِظُوۡہُنَّ وَ اہۡجُرُوۡہُنَّ فِی الۡمَضَاجِعِ وَ اضۡرِبُوۡہُنَّ ۚ فَاِنۡ اَطَعۡنَکُمۡ فَلَا تَبۡغُوۡا عَلَیۡہِنَّ سَبِیۡلًا ؕ اِنَّ اللّٰہَ کَانَ عَلِیًّا کَبِیۡرًا ﴿۳۴﴾

4:34 Men are the maintainers of women, with what Allah has given – some of them above others – and with what they spend out of their wealth. So the good women are obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded. And those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the beds and turn them away. So if they obey you, do not seek a way against them. Surely Allah is ever Exalted, Great.

وَ اِنۡ خِفۡتُمۡ شِقَاقَ بَیۡنِہِمَا فَابۡعَثُوۡا حَکَمًا مِّنۡ اَہۡلِہٖ وَ حَکَمًا مِّنۡ اَہۡلِہَا ۚ اِنۡ یُّرِیۡدَاۤ اِصۡلَاحًا یُّوَفِّقِ اللّٰہُ بَیۡنَہُمَا ؕ اِنَّ اللّٰہَ کَانَ عَلِیۡمًا خَبِیۡرًا ﴿۳۵﴾

4:35 And if you fear a breach between the two, appoint an arbiter from his people and an arbiter from her people. If they both desire agreement, Allah will effect harmony between them. Surely Allah is ever Knowing, Aware.

This is such a crucial topic – MARRIAGE!!! I think it necessary to expound so that there is no misunderstanding.

And those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them…

According to MERRIAM-WEBSTER:

ADMONISH – (verb) – admonished; admonishing; admonishes
a. to indicate duties or obligations to
b. to express warning or disapproval to; especially in a gentle yet earnest or solicitous manner
ex. The students were admonished for being late.
ex. Before riding their bikes, their parents admonished them to be careful.
ex. Public computer users are admonished to change passwords regularly.

And those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them…

I never even considered the first part. I just migrated the instruction to include any type of insubordination.

If the definition for “desertion” is taken more abstractly, it could mean mental desertion. Not actual desertion.

Per haps the wife is showing signs of distraction. She has something on her mind and is neglecting her homemaking duties.

First, admonish her by
a. to indicate duties or obligations to
“Honey, I noticed you have fallen behind in your housekeeping… There are still dishes in the dishwasher, and the baby’s pants still need a hem. What’s going on? (with a hug and a kiss) ❤ ❤ ❤ 🙂 “

Talk about it. In my experience, most times, the person doesn’t even realize that something is amiss! Gently, delineate that you have noticed a change… ❤ ❤ 🙂

b. to express warning or disapproval to; especially in a gentle yet earnest or solicitous manner.

Solicitous just means gentle yet earnest. 🙂

So again, he is supposed to appeal to his wife in a gentle, solicitous manner, ideally discovering the ROOT of the problem. What is on her mind that has her behaving thusly? Discuss it. Amend it. Move on.

🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤

If she persists, “leave them alone in their beds turning away.” In other words, show her no affection until she desists.

Finally, a form of counseling and judgement which will keep the matter as discreet as possible. Two ARBITERS. One from her side. One from his.

MERRIAM – WEBSTER

arbiter (noun)

ar·​bi·​ter ˈär-bə-tər 

 a. person with power to decide a dispute
ex. The mayor will act as the final arbiter in any dispute between board members.

b. person or agency whose judgment or opinion is considered authoritative
ex. He called in financial arbiters in the area to advise him.

As in any area of justice, each side will have an ambassador and between the four of them, a resolution is guaranteed. 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤

REMEMBER THEM

AND THEM

AND THEM

THEM

AND ESPECIALLY US!!!!

All of your loved ones who really want you guys to honour the vows you made to yourself, Allah (God), Your family, Your FUTURE – the children who will prolong the life of your respective families, your community, OUR NATION.
We all would like to see you spend the rest of your lives in the happy anticipation that you began it with. So PLEASE…. SEEK HELP….. FOLLOW THE JUDGEMENT… AND LIVE. After a while, you will have progressed to the point wherein, In Sha Allah, you will never even remember this incident. Al Hamdulillah! Allahu Akbar. 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤

❤ Umi ❤ 🙂

P.S.

I just realized this article is from the perspective of the man/husband/zawji.

In Sha Allah, I will write from the wife’s perspective next. 🩷🩷🩷🩷☝🏿🥰

BISMILLAHI RAHMANI RAHIM

BLACK PANTHER READING LIST

TO DIE FOR THE PEOPLE – HUEY P. NEWTON

REVOLUTIONARY SUICIDE – HUEY P. NEWTON

SEIZE THE TIME – BOBBY SEALE (Comrade Huey’s Right Hand)

ASSATA

SOLEDAD BROTHER – GEORGE JACKSON

BLOOD IN MY EYE – GEORGE JACKSON

SOUL ON ICE – ELDRIDGE CLEAVER

بسم الله الرحمان ال رحيم

السلام علايكم ورحمت الله وبركت

FROM THE MESSENGER:

PLEASE CLICK THE BOOK COVER BELOW, READ AND PRINT IT OUT

*Please note: The last paragraph of Chapter 8 should read,
“The greatest hindrance to the truth of our people is the PREACHER OF CHRISTIANITY…)

FROM THE EDITOR:

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum My Beloved and Beautiful Asiatic Black Ukhtis!!! ❤ ❤ ❤

So stoked!!!

I started a new website :

SK8PARKSKULLEEZ.COM !!!!!

I just wanted to teach how to crochet and BOOM!!! 🙂

Check me out if you want to learn.

I’m also showing some examples of what you can create.

I just put it up and have only posted the INTRODUCTION and Lesson One.
Really basic stuff.
Basically HOW TO CROCHET IN FIVE FIVE MINUTE LESSONS. 🙂
Here’s The Link SK8PARK 💀eez

Also, I’m reading one of my fave authors and she is so into AUTUMN.
It’s getting me into it also.
Here’s some of my fave tunes.
I’m not really into poetry like she is. But she mentions the millions of sonnets singing the praises of the country scenes turning into red and orange and the transition from the vibrancy of Summer to the melancholic and long AUTUMNAL evenings so fit for walks and talks reflecting on the past season and optimistic plans and expectations for the new year………. *sigh*

On my list of things to do and research: AUTUMN POETRY…

I’m also wrapping up my study of JI-OLOGY.
And commencing my SK8PARK JOURNEY.
Continuing THE PREVENTATIVE NURSE with an expose’ on RESPIRATORY THERAPARY. I call it “AIRAPY.”

To put it simply, CONSCIOUS BREATHING to promote relaxation. And thus, eliminate stress! 🙂

THE TALKING DRUM:

We had a very scary TSUNAMI WARNING here in HA WAI’I last month. I posted live coverage on my FACEBOOK PROFILE. In Sha Allah, I’ll be able to post it or a link.

But I went to the local quickie mart and the front glass door had been replaced by a wooden plank. I asked about it and was informed that when they were forced to close early due to the tsunami, a man went ballistic and broke the glass in his effort to enter the store despite the warning and order to close! The police were notified and nobody was hurt. But it will be another two weeks before the door will be repaired!

I had to learn the hard way, you do not mess with 68,634,00 square miles of water. And those dimensions do not include DEPTH!!!

I hightailed up the volcano(😲) after stocking up on rations and prepared to monitor the approach of the expected massive TIDAL WAVE from a very safe and long distance.

After I heard news reports that the waves were a mere ten feet, I was released from all agitation of worry and proceeded to head back to the spot!

On my word, ANY GOOD SURFER WOULD GRAB HIS TEN-FOOT WAVE BOARD AND RIP!!! IMR! TEN FEET!!! PFSHHHHH!

I could only post a link so here they are : TSUNAMI COVERAGE VIDEO #1
TSUNAMI COVERAGE VIDEO #2

FOR YOUR INFORMATION: THE MOVIE “SOUL FOOD” WAS REALLY ABOUT IMPROVING THE DIETARY HABITS OF THE BLACK COMMUNITY.

THE MATRIARCH SUFFERED FROM HYPERTENSION (HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE) RESULTING IN THE AMPUTATION OF HER LEG AND ULTIMATELY HER UNTIMELY PREMATURE DEATH, MOST LIKELY FROM HEART FAILURE.

WHY??? BECAUSE ALL SHE ATE WAS…

SPOTLESS:

I’m reading a FENG SHUI book right now. I find so many useful jewels in ANCIENT CHINESE PHILOSOPHY. Our Beloved Messenger, May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah forever be upon him, taught us that there is truth in all religions, however, we need a religion that is one hundred per cent TRUTH. And that can only be found in the religion of ISLAM AS HE TAUGHT US FROM THE MOUTH OF ALLAH.

One thing I realized is that my son and I had to keep buying these beautiful tropical fish because they kept dying.

I didn’t even think to consider moving them to another part of the house!!!

We had them in our small kitchen….

In retrospect, it soundz obvious, but our house was very small and our kitchen counter was always bare excepting a small ivy plant so placing the fish next to the ivy seemed like a logical place at the time.

The feng shui advised to never place an aquarium in the kitchen nor the bedroom.

JUNIOURZ:

My son and I were talking and he mentioned that VERB from Schoolhouse Rock was THE ONLY BLACK SUPERHERO. Like with a cape and everything. What’s up with that??? In any case.

F.O.I.:

Genesis 2:24 King James Version

²⁴ Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Matthew 19:5 King James Version

⁵ And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

FASHION PLATES:

So, I was slanging KROSHAY KROWNZ yesterday and this sister walks by facetiming and I know she got me because I heard her say, “HER SHOEZ” and I thought to myself, “What better compliment is there than that of your SHOES!??”

Your fit may be cute or your hair. But your hair is totally respective of your parents. You had nothing to do with it really. And your fit may be tight but still. I gotta see yo shoes! FR

In any case, that really made my day. 🙂

SPOONZ:

FOR YOUR INFORMATION: THE MOVIE “SOUL FOOD” WAS REALLY ABOUT IMPROVING THE DIETARY HABITS OF THE BLACK COMMUNITY.

THE MATRIARCH SUFFERED FROM HYPERTENSION (HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE) RESULTING IN THE AMPUTATION OF HER LEG AND ULTIMATELY HER UNTIMELY PREMATURE DEATH, MOST LIKELY FROM HEART FAILURE.

WHY??? BECAUSE ALL SHE ATE WAS…

ETIQUETTE:

So, I was really going to keep this to myself, but I decided that I am going to make moves with the adjective “ELEGANT” as my M.O…..

IN CONCLUSION:

بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم

And we DON’T STOP……

WON’T STOP!!!!

KEEP ON AND ON AND ON AND ON…..

بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم

بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم

Muslims are so dope.

I heard a story about a man who had a friend drop by but he didn’t want to open the door all the way and the friend was wondering why not. He was like I am home with my wife and we weren’t expecting you. The friend was like Oh Aight. And he commented that the Brother was dressed and groomed way much better than he had ever seen him outside of his home.

Muslims understand that to keep your spouse YOU have to look better at home FOR THEM than you do outside and for other regular nobodies. 🥰🥰🥰

I am focusing on OBLIQUE COLLARS aka OFF THE SHOULDER.

NOT ALL OF THEM THOUGH 🥰🥰

I would make this with a hood.

Like an ABAYA

I really want to embroider….

This so FUNKY!!! MUDCLOTH OR KENTE OR HAWAI’IAN OMG!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🩷🩷🩷🌹🌿🌹🌿🌹🌿🌹🌿🌿🌿☝🏿

The FABRIC!!!!

This one is cute off BOTH shoulders too.

Pants.

I would give this a mock turtleneck like below

This is a mini but could easily be made into a maxi

Do not wear this to SUPPER 🥰🥰🥰

I have loved these since MAHOGANY!!!

Also with the mock turtleneck and a long string of double pearls like a flapper.

Probly make a pantskirt to wear to the Symphony.

They had the cutest clothes!!!

The music was pretty good too. 🥰

I sang this in my voice class.

This more me tho

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

And if I go somewhere a white pantskirt a mock and this….

PRINTS

MINIS

Change the colour on these and In sha Allah I will figure out a way to filter out the devil

Make with terrycloth and it doubles as bathrobe