بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم
الإخوان المسلمين السلام عليكم
AS-SALAAMU ‘ALAIKUM, BELOVED SISTERS & BROTHERS!
MINT IN YOUR GREEN SALADS
DILL IN YOUR POTATO SALADS
ZEST IN YOUR LOVENADE
Category: The Blackwoman in America
HOW TO REAR OUR CHILDREN
بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم
الإخوان المسلمين السلام عليكم
AS-SALAAMU ‘ALAIKUM, BELOVED SISTERS & BROTHERS
PEACE BE UPON YOU!!!
NOTES TO REMEMBER
بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم
NOTES TO REMEMBER
1. The wife herself is responsible for the care of her home and the welfare of the family.
2. The best woman is she, who when her husband sees her, he is pleased and when he directs her she obeys. She protects her husband’s rights and keeps her chastity when he is absent.
3. Nowadays there is a tendency for women to try and struggle for their livelihood in a harsh world in the way men do. The Muslim opinion is that she should be spared from these struggles and worries so that she can give her full attention to the making of a home.
4. The Muslim woman’s job is to make her family’s life sweet and joyful and the home a place of security and peace.
5. “The mother is a school”.
6. In the relationship of man and wife, both are expected to find peace in each others’ company and be bound together not only by the sexual relationship but by love and mercy.
7. The search for knowledge is a duty for every Muslim (Male or Female).
8. One of the aims of acquiring knowledge is that of becoming more conscious of ALLAH (God.)
9. Both men and women should behave modestly in the presence of the opposite sex.
10. The Muslim woman is to give her husband the respect due to the head of the family.
11. The Muslim woman is accorded full spiritual and intellectual equality with men.
12. The Muslim woman keeps her face free of make-up.
MY F.O.I. SONG :)
بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم
الإخوان المسلمين السلام عليكم
AS-SALAAMU ‘ALAIKUM, BELOVED SISTERS & BROTHERS
To the tune of “RED RIVER VALLEY” except the Bridge, not sure how the RRV bridge goes, but if you have any inkling of how a song goes, you’ll be able to carry it… إن شاء الله
This goes out to all the Brothers who wonder why I’m not interested;
Also your sisters, who try to set me up with you… 
I DON’T CARE HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HA-AVE.
I DON’T CARE IF YOU’RE “FI-INE AS WINE…”
I DON’T CARE IF YOU’RE DRIPPING WITH SAU-AUCE.”
IF YOU WANT ME… YOU MUST BE F.O.I.
(verse 2)
I DON’T CARE IF YOU’RE POPE OF THE VATICAN…
I DON’T CARE IF YOU’RE P.O.T.U.SSSSSSS.
I DON’T CARE IF YOU’RE CEO OF THE FORTUNE 500
IF YOU’RE NOT F.O.I. I DON’T CARE
(bridge)
F.O.I., F.O.I.
M.G.T. CAN ONLY MARRY F.O.I.
THERE’S A LITTLE BOOK CALLED MESSAGE TO THE BLACKMAN
READ IT, BELIEVE IT AND PRACTICE IT
SO YOU CAN BE F.O.I.!!!
Okay, so apparently the person who wrote this song about the Louisiana River Valley, did not know that every Music songwriting class insists that every song has a bridge.
So, I did him/her a favor and at least gave it a tune…
Fill in with my lyrics… 🙂
ANCIENT WISDOM FOR SINGLES ON MARRIAGE #spring <3 <3 <3 ;)
بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم
الإخوان المسلمين السلام عليكم
AS-SALAAMU ‘ALAIKUM, BELOVED SISTERS & BROTHERS
39 ANCIENT WISDOM TIPS
FOR SINGLES ON MARRIAGE
1. Wedding is a day. Marriage is a lifetime.
2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.
3. Practice Silence. Never be misquoted.
4. If you want what no one has had, you must do what no one has done.
5. When Allah wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Shaytan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life.
6. It is better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.
7. Avoid a contentious woman.
8. ٣ men to avoid:
a.) An emotional man.
b.) A womanizer.
c.) A man who exceeds limits (glutton.)
9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.
10. Never be yoked to anyone who is not yoked to Allah.
11. 3 phrases that guarantee Salaam (Peace) in a marriage:
a. I love you.
b. I am sorry.
c. Thank you.
12. Don’t waste your time dwelling on your singleness.
13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure.
14. Deal with anti-marriage feelings.
15. Masturbation is destruction.
16. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.
17. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will trample on your dreams.
18. A successful marriage is always a triangle:
Allah,
a man and a woman.
19. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.
20. Happiness in life depends on your marital choice.
21. A man needs divine wisdom from Allah in choosing who to marry.
22. Do not place your priority on good looks; they may not last, furthermore, no Black Person is ugly, s/he just needs to practice ISLAM.
23. 3 major characteristics to look for in a woman:
a. Fear of Allah.
b. Wisdom.
c. Discretion
(preoccupation with one’s own beauty is vanity).
24. The best way to enslave a woman (enamour her to you) is to shower her with love excessively – as a rule, women do not run away from where they are pampered.
25. Love is not blind; infatuation and lust are blind.
26. Love puts Allah first; lust puts sex first.
27. Measure Love with your Peace of Mind;
If either is absent, Allah (Love) is not there.
28. If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends.
29. Caring hearts result in caring actions.
30. Desperation leads to frustration.
31. Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin.
32. Keep yourself pure and your bed undefiled.
33. It is spiritual insanity to plan to convert someone so you can marry the person.
34. Wage war against the devil that fought your parents’ marriage (if necessary.)
35. Marriage is a covenant, always look before you leap.
36. It is better to be single and believing Allah to be married than to be married and believing in Allah to be single.
37. A broken courtship is better than a failed marriage.
38. Do not marry money or property or looks
(material things, which do not last),
marry the person inside the person.
39. Be presentable.
❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
CHANGE OF SEASONS – SPRING
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beloved and Beautiful Sisters!!!
SPRING IS UPON US. I HAVE NOT NOTICED SO MANY COUPLES DURING THIS TIME OF YEAR SINCE A LONG LONG LONG LONG TIME.
NOT ONLY AM I SEEING MORE COUPLES, BUT THE FLOWERS SEEM TO REACH OUT TO ME. HUMMINGBIRDS COME RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY FACE, LIKE “BAM!!” LOL
I’M LIKE, “OKAY! IT’S SPRING!”
IT’S ALMOST ANNOYING, BUT IT’S SO BEAUTIFUL.
BABIES, COUPLES AND FLOWERS!!!
LOVE IT. THE WEATHER IS WARMING UP. RAIN IS EASING AND IT REALLY FEELS LIKE SUMMER.
BUT I AM NOT GETTING CAUGHT UP!!!
ALLAH IS FIRST.
ISLAM AND PEACE.
I AM NOT LISTENING TO MUSIC. NOR SUCCUMBING TO THE REQUESTS FOR ME TO PERFORM. LISTEN TO THE MESSENGER (PEACE BE UPON HIM).
IN KEEPING WITH MY SAVIOUR’S DAY RESOLUTION, I HAVE FOUND AN ARABIC CLASS AND AL HAMDULILLAH! IT IS ONLY FOR SISTERS!!! AS IT SHOULD BE.
IF YOU ARE LUCKY ENOUGH TO LIVE NEAR ME 🙂 HERE IS THE E-MAIL
Salam Alaykum Sisters,
Our Quran class has begun at the King Fahad Mosque. The time has been moved to 6:30-8:00 on Wednesday.
Please join us tomorrow, Wednesday March 20th, to practice your Quran recitation.
We look forward to seeing you all there.
Let me know if you have any questions.
InshaAllah we will see you tomorrow.
Best regards,
Sabrina Grandke-Bawab
HERE IS AN OLD POST ON THE CHANGE OF SEASONS. I WOULD RECOMMEND YOU READ IT. IT HAS SOME VALUABLE INFORMATION WE NEED.
FRUIT
بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم
“When a Tree starts out healthy, it will eventually lead to a stronger and supportable/supported tree. With a healthy and supportive root system to anchor the tree into the ground, it will be able to stand on it’s own.
It will mature and stand on its own producing healthy and productive fruit.”
– Maulvi Muhammad ‘Ali
As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Sisters & Brothers!!!
FRUIT!!! The product of a good and healthy tree. The Root. The Trunk. The Bark. The Stem. The Branch. The Leaves. The Flowers……. The FRUIT —– The Seed. The Root. The Trunk. The Bark. The Stem. The Branch. The Leaves. The Flower……. The FRUIT ——- The SEED….
….starts out healthy, it will eventually lead to a stronger and supportable/supported tree. With a healthy and supportive root system to anchor the tree into the ground, it will be able to stand on it’s own.
It will mature and stand on its own producing healthy and productive fruit.”
– Maulvi Muhammad ‘Ali
LOVE IS IN THE AIR :)
بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم
As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beloved Asiatic Black Brothers & Beloved Asiatic Black Sisters!!!
I don’t know why but I’m posting this again.
It is MY list of requirements for a suitor.
I am an M.G.T. & G.C.C. and this website description is for the Black MUSLIM woman, so you can take it or leave it.
#1 He must approach you. Not personally, but send a representative who will tell you he thinks you would make a suitable wife and he would like to court you FOR MARRIAGE. You are not to be so forward and other than Islamic and approach any Brother.
#2 You go on CHAPERONED DATES and when/if he finds you qualified, he will propose and if you find him qualified, you accept.
#Set a date and plan the wedding. Nothing else changes.
Here are some of the things I require.
#1 FRUIT OF ISLAM in THE HOLY NATION OF ISLAM.
A. NAME OF ALLAH – FIRST AND LAST – NO NAMES OF THE DEVIL CAUCASIAN CHRISTIANS.
B. MUST EAT TO LIVE – ONE MEAL A DAY AND VEGETARIAN DIET.
C. MUST BE ABLE TO MAINTAIN MY STANDARD OF LIVING
D. MUST NOT BE EMOTIONAL
E. SPEND HIS LEISURE TIME IN ISLAMIC PROGRESS
F. MUSLIM ASSOCIATES ONLY.
G. MINIMAL TIME OUTSIDE OF THE HOME
H. SHARE MY VIEWS CONCERNING THE ROLES OF HUSBAND & WIFE, FATHER & MOTHER, GRANDFATHER & GRANDMOTHER, &c.
MUSLIM HOMESCHOOL BLOG
بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم
GENERAL ORDERS
بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم
- TO TAKE CHARGE OF THIS POST AND ALL TEMPLE PROPERTY IN VIEW.
- TO WALK MY POST IN A PERFECT MANNER, KEEPING ALWAYS ON THE ALERT.
- TO REPORT ALL VIOLATIONS OF ORDERS I AM INSTRUCTED TO ENFORCE.
- TO REPORT ALL CALLS FROM POSTS MORE DISTANT FROM THE TEMPLE THAN MY OWN.
- TO QUIT MY POST ONLY WHEN PROPERLY RELIEVED.
- TO RECEIVE, OBEY, AND PASS ON TO THE SENTINEL WHO RELIEVES ME, ALL ORDERS FROM THE COMMANDING OFFICER, OFFICER OF THE DAY AND NON-COMMISSIONED OFFICERS OF THE GUARD ONLY.
- TO TALK TO NO ONE EXCEPT IN THE LINE OF DUTY.
- IN CASE OF DISORDER, GIVE THE ALARM.
- TO ALLOW NO ONE TO COMMIT A NUISANCE ON OR NEAR MY POST.
- IN ANY CASE NOT COVERED BY INSTRUCTION, CALL THE GUARD.
- TO SALUTE ALL OFFICERS AND STANDARDS NOT CASED.
- TO BE ESPECIALLY WATCHFUL AT NIGHT DURING THE TIME OF MEETINGS.
YOU MUST HAVE YOUR GENERAL ORDERS WRITTEN ON THE TABLET OF YOUR HEART IN ORDER TO STAND POST.
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