بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

AS-SALAAMU ‘ALAIKUM BEAUTIFUL AND BELOVED ASIATIC BLACK QUEENS!!!!

Sisters, it feels SO GOOD when Brothers pursue you! That is the way it is SUPPOSED to be. WE ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO PURSUE BROTHERS.

However, we can use our “feminine wiles” to get their attention.

Remember when women would “drop a handkerchief?” We can still do that. Who says it has to be a handkerchief? A real gentleman will pick up ANYTHING you drop. He will offer to help you with your bags. Do not refuse his assistance! If ANY Brother, even ones you are not interested in, offers to HELP you, LET HIM!

WE ARE QUEENS. We have to learn how to let our Brothers be KINGS. Our history in America has made us feel like we should do everything on our own, when in reality, it is just the opposite!

The Brothers are MADE to do the manual labor, carrying stuff and fixing stuff and working. We are supposed to be “helpless.” Seriously tho. MEN FEEL APPRECIATED WHEN THEY “HELP” US.

They know we can carry our own bags and open doors for ourselves. But why should we when they are physically stronger and more capable? Allah is ALL-WISE AND ONE HUNDRED PER CENT RIGHT AND EXACT.

Picture yourself as you are – A QUEEN. It doesn’t look right for a QUEEN to open her own door. Or drive her King around. Or carry bags if there is a big, strong Blackman nearby.

I know, I know, it’s going to take some getting used to because we have been used as beasts of burden for so long, but in the immortal words of Sojourner Truth, “Ain’t I a Woman?” This is an excellent way to test the Brothers. If they treat you like a QUEEN from the start, you won’t have to worry about it later.

This is an excerpt from a speech given by Sister Sojourner Truth, illustrating exactly why Black women feel like we don’t need Brothers to help us. We have never been treated like a woman is SUPPOSED to be treated.

The devil treats his woman the way women are supposed to be treated, but he treated us like crap and made our Brothers treat us like crap. So now we have become accustomed to being treated like crap and reject proper treatment. We have to realize who we really are, Sisters.

If we refuse to settle for anything less than Royal Treatment, it will FORCE the Brothers to treat us in such manner. And it will make the ones who already do, feel appreciated.