Man of Sin

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Man of Sin

“The man of sin referred to in the Bible (II Thessalonians 2:3) is now being revealed. He is the devil in person, who was made of sin, not any good was in the essence that he was from. Since he was made of sin, what good can one expect of the man of sin?

“Why has he (the man of sin) been hidden from the eyes of the righteous people and only revealed today? The answer is: How could the man of sin rule the righteous for six thousand years if he had not been veiled to prevent the discovery of his true self?

“According to II Thessalonians 2:9, the man of sin had a work to do and God wouldn’t interfere with this work of the man of sin until the time given him was fully up.

“The eighth verse in II Thessalonians reads that the Lord shall consume with the Spirit (of Truth of the man of sin) of his mouth, and shall destroy with the Brightness of His Coming, which means that the truth of the man of sin is clearly made by God that there can be no doubt that he is really the man of sin who has caused and is causing all the trouble among the righteous. He (the man of sin) is a great deceiver, liar and a murderer by nature.”

Shower Curtains

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beloved Asiatic Black Bebies!!!

I just thought of something this morning I could write about that is in line with the homemaking format of this blog!!!

That really made me excited because I still think about that.

This is SUPPOSED to be a homemaking blog.

At least, that is the title.

Even though when I started it, my intention was to get you to read Message To The Blackman in America by The Honourable Elijah Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him). As that is THE most important thing we can do in this time of the end of this world as we know it.

However, personally, I had to read another book before I was ready to read Message To The Blackman in America.

So, I thought I would start the blog as maybe a prerequisite to someone else reading Message To The Blackman in America.

I realize how powerful a book it is and that some people may not be ready for the life-changing effect it can have on your life.

So, I started a homemaking blog as my first priority is Blackwomen and helping Our Beloved Messenger in his duty of delivering the Message of Allah to our people.

But anyway, when I first got a place to stay in New Orleans, I was really taken by the attention to luxury in the home. I was staying in a transitional housing unit and this aspect of decorating was noticeable even in the face of such privation.

One of the things that stood out was that the shower curtains consisted of both a curtain and a liner.

Now, I was familiar with the concept of the dual layer shower curtain, but being from L.A., Idk, it never seemed to matter.

But now I am living in my SECOND transitional shelter and this one also has the dual shower curtain. The first transitional housing unit also had a fancy stand for the toilet paper which I know is due to the French roots New Orleans is built upon.

As homemakers, we are responsible for providing a comfortable and relaxing atmosphere in our homes for our families to enjoy and this is a small detail that can make a big difference.

Of course, rugs and decorative pictures go without saying, but adding a liner to the shower curtain adds a nice touch and also makes so much sense!

The liner stays inside the tub and the curtain hangs outside. That way you don’t have to worry about it being outside when you take a shower and water ruining your home!

Simplify your life and save yourself the hassle by purchasing liners for your shower!

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*side note*

I was so dissatisfied with the images for shower curtains that came up on Google, so I G’d mansion bathrooms because I knew I had seen some nicer bathrooms than the ones that came up.

But the ones that came up for mansions, don’t even have shower curtains. They all have glass doors. So, just to give you a little something to look forward to… 😀

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I love how SPACIOUS this next one is. (below)

When I shower or bathe, it’s like a ritual.

You know ABLUTIONS are big for Muslims. Five times a day at least. I may take two showers a day. Or a shower in the morning and a bath at night and another shower in the morning. It’s spiritual.

Ablutions are like prayers. We are not only cleansing our bodies, we are asking Allah to remove and forgive us of any sins we may have committed with our bodies since our last ablution.

So, needless to say, the bathroom is like my sanctuary. I HAVE to have music. Candles are nice. Incense too. Lavender essential oils are essential. 😉

But, because I spend so much time in there, I would really love a bathroom like this.

I have been known to lay down on the floor and take a nap on my bathtowel after getting out of the bath. I get so relaxed. LOL

Anyway, check it out!

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That looks like it could be a pantry, which would also be cool because you know I take snacks in there with me. Frfr. 😛 Maybe even a microwave or oven would be cool too. I could bake cookies while I’m in there. No joke. I would.

I keep my bathroom clean enough to eat out of.

M.G.T. are instructed to clean the commode after every use. And I get down on my hands and knees and CLEAN.

This How I Do!

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Okay, okay, okay, I’m gonna be honest.

The REAL reason I like how spacious that bottom bathroom is, is because I like to dance in the bathroom too.

And sometimes, I can get a real modern dance “FAME” like type of a groove going on, doing “splits” and kicks and taking up a whole lot of room. I would love this bathroom for that option.

Yeah, I know. Sometimes, I can be really honest.

But admit it. That’s why you love me. 😀

btw If you take a shower or bath and get out and parts of your body are not wet, you cannot call yourself clean.

Allah Rejoiced Over Having Found Us

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“Allah greatly rejoiced over us and was real happy that He had found us – the lost Nation of Islam in the wildernesses of North America.”

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Thursday

March 16, 2017

Late Afternoon

NEW ORLEANS

Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim

I was going to make this a blog, but I feel like being brutally honest and i can’t be that open and honest with my readers. Only you.

So cheah.

I went to the homeless place but they told me you have to be referred. So, I would have had to go to a shelter and it’s not that serious especially since she gave me a few sheets with housing agencies and low-income apartments and transitional living places where I would have my own room.

That is a major concern now, after last night when I almost got a roommate.

I’m trying to move next month. Because Derrick is too anxious to put someone else up in here with me and well, you know… I cannot have a roommate. I was willing to try, but this time of being by myself just reinforced my independence. In sha Allah, I’ll make it through the month without having to get a roommate, In Sha Allah, but I’m leaving come the first, In sha Allah.

She gave me too many options to have to have a roommate for too long.

I’m not like most people.

Why did he move in a devil who used to be in the NGE? SMH She came up to me talking bout “Peace Earth” I was like What? LOL I put her in her place quickly. She tried to tell me what the NGE believes. I told her I know what they believe after all they got it from us. And just walked away.

She’s a joke. A devil in the NGE. SMH

But anyway, I’m gonna try and get on some of these waiting lists so I can hurry up and get my own place. I’m anxious for Ibni to come out here.

One of the places on the list, I went to when I first came out here. It was nice. I wonder if I’m still on the list. Let me call them. BRB Yeah, I figured they would be closed. It’s after six. But you know me. I don’t take no for an answer.

I wanna eat my sunflower seeds. Where did they come up with the term “poly seeds?” LOL How did they get “poly” from sunflower? Anyway. I can’t type and eat at the same time. Not those anyway.

I’m watching New Jersey Drive. It’s aight. I mean it’s better than that other movie with Nas and DMX. The acting is better, so I’m gonna say the director is better. I can’t even remember the name of the other movie it was so bad.

Everybody is talking about the movie Get Out. I have no desire to see no movie about an interracial relationship. I don’t even know why Black people allow ourselves to get caught up in the devils’ hype. Blind, deaf and dumb sheep, I guess.

I’ve got a new favorite radio station. It’s a new station. Throwback 96.3 I think, or something. They play music from the nineties when we were in our twenties, so you know I am digging it. It’s not lit or nothing but it’s nostalgic and I’m with that.

Downside is they play bad music from that time too. I wish I could skip or ban artists. Like on slacker or tidal.

I went to Family Dollar and got a frame for your picture, Love. They’re playing some song that is making me feel some kinda way. It sounds familiar but I don’t know what it is or who sings it. It’s called “I’m so alone” I think. It’s about death or an ended relationship. It’s sad. I would skip it if I could. I don’t like songs that make me sad. Life is too valuable to put yourself through sadness unnecessarily. I turned it off. I can’t take it.

It’s easy to wait until it goes off. 🙂

I’ve learned that. Nothing bad lasts forever. Just be patient, it’s going to end soon enough. That’s why I can listen to music with other people – djs and whatnot. If they play a song I don’t like sometimes I leave, other times I just wait. Depends on if I have something to do or somewhere else I could go.

At Mardi Gras, I waited.

Man, I never thought I would ever go to Mardi Gras!

It feels good saying I’ve been. I feel privileged because I know so many people wish they could go.

I even got your fedora! I’m so blessed! That fedora was bomb. You know I had to floss. 😀

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Now they’re playing I miss you by Aaron Hall. What is up? Are you trying to tell me something?

I hate when you make me think about stuff like that. And you know it. Stop depressing me for nothing. Why are you depressing me? You just like playing with me, Buster.

I can wait.

I got some manicure implements too. I stole them. It’s so easy to steal from Family Dollar. But when I went to Rite Aid, they were watching me like a hawk! I sure was about to walk out with that charger, but I procrastinated and she got hip. I should have just left but cold feet. I got it on sale though so I can still go see Corey Henry. That was close. I almost had to spend my transportation. I could probably walk now that I think about it. I just have to look at my map to see what would be the quickest way.

New Orleans is crazy. When they told me it was a circle I really didn’t believe them. But it’s true. If you keep going, you’re going to run into the same street. It’s crazy. That’s probably why the buses are so crazy. I’ve figured it out for the most part.

I’m still learning how to pronounce streets.

Trip this. I live by a street spelled LEONIDAS but they pronounce is LEONDAS like the “i” is silent or something. LOL I love New Orleans. I learned how to say “How ya duuhn” like they do too today. I’ve been working on that since last year. I finally got it. I usually say “As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum” but sometimes I feel like a native. 🙂

I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you.

LAZARUS

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The Supreme Wisdom

Solution to the so-called NEGROES’ Problem

ELIJAH MUHAMMAD

Vol I.

LAZARUS

“We have made the grave mistake of Lazarus and the Prodigal Son (St. Luke, Chapter 15), the one who was so charmed over the wealth and food of the rich man that he couldn’t leave his gate to seek [the] same for himself. Regardless to the disgraceful condition in which the rich man put him, even to sending his dogs to attack him. The angels then had to come and take him away.”

Judgement of the World

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Judgment of the World

“The judgment of the world has arrived and the gathering together of the people is now going on.

“Why should there be a judgement of the world? Why was there a judgement of the people of Noah and Lot? The Bible says: ‘That day shall not come except there come a falling away first, and the man of sin revealed, the son of Perdition’ (II Thessalonians 2:3)

“The whole world of our kind awaits the awakening (to the knowledge of the good that is being carried on for their deliverance), and (our awakening) is the last step in the Resurrection and judgment of the world.

“The end of the world has arrived and most of us know it, and our enemy’s greatest desire is that we remain asleep.”

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TUESDAY

MARCH 14, 2017

5:36 P.M.

NEW ORLEANS

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Ma Beautiful And Beloved Asiatic Black Bebies!!!

How are all of you?

Good?

I’m good too!

I had a really good day today.

I went to the dental school and was accepted into their program so I can be treated as a patient. I was worried for a minute because I wasn’t sure if I would be accepted, but not only was I accepted, I had the $125 I needed to pay!

الله أكب

Oh My God! Why did I buy some oils from this Brother a week ago on Canal Street, but I didn’t want to use them until I could take a good bath and get to smelling all good? And I opened the oils up for the first time yesterday and it took me straight to the French Quarter!

Those oils smell so good!

I don’t even know what kind they are.

He just let me smell them and they smelled good (and I have extremely high standards when it comes to oils) so I bought them. And Oh My God! They have been making me feel lit all day.

That’s about all.

I’m just really loving my Zawji, listening to the Messenger (PBUH) and I think I’m going to turn in early tonight.

Here is the lecture.

The Origin Of Our Kinky Hair

Bismillah

THE SUPREME WISDOM VOLUME TWO,
BY THE HONORABLE ELIJAH MUHAMMAD (PBUH)
PAGE 16

KINKY HAIR

The origin of our kinky hair came from one of our dissatisfied scientists, fifty thousand years ago, who wanted to make all of us tough and hard in order to endure the life of the jungles of East Asia (Africa) and to overcome the beasts there. But he failed to get the others to agree with him. He took his family and moved into the jungle to prove to us that we could live there and conquer the wild beasts and we have.

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MESSAGE TO THE BLACKMAN

MONDAY

MARCH 13, 2017

8:29 P.M.

NEW ORLEANS

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Ma Beloved and Beautiful Asiatic Black Bebies!!!

I did it!

I went to the hospital and as usual Zawji was right.

I feel one thousand per cent better.

I didn’t even know I was suicidal

BUT

When I finally got in

(you know I resisted :/ )

I just started thinking and feeling bad and worse and just eventually gave in and admitted it.

My life was going nowhere.

I had nowhere to go.

Nothing to do.

Nobody to talk to

(except Ibni but he’s a teenager and I don’t want to impose on his fun and eventful teenage life)

SO

I just took the time to regroup

AND

Plan my next move

AND

I know I’ve said it before but NEW ORLEANS is TOPS when it comes to placement.

Also mental health treatment and facilities.

It makes me wonder why I have such a hard time checking myself in when I need help.

I know.

It’s hard admitting I need help.

I’m fiercely independent

BUT

This time I learned how to submit.

When I and Zawji get together I’m going to have to submit to him

AND

That’s new for me.

I’m used to having my own way ALL THE TIME.

BUT

This time, they paired me with a roommate who was not having it.

AND

I gave in to her with no fight.

She was mad.

She wanted to fight.

BUT

Zawji told me

If I can submit to a woman he knows I can submit to him.

I feel like there is no woman better than me in the universe so why should I submit to one?

Thus, his reasoning.

🙂

So, I passed Homemaking for the Blackwoman Graduate Course How To Take Care Of Your Husband 402

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While I was in the hospital I blogged and wrote my son a letter.

I think I’m going to include them both here instead of writing two more blogs

First, the letter:

I WOULD RATHER YOU BE A GARBAGE MAN THAN A PROFESSIONAL ATHLETE!

Provide something useful to our nation – products or services.

NOT SPORT AND PLAY!!!

Please, Please, Please Clear Your Mind of any such thoughts.

These are only distractions from the essential work of building Allah’s Kingdom.

We only know YOU and those other darling children we met at S.D.

The responsibility is therefore on YOU!

* Food * Clothes * Shelter * Transportation * Communication * Sanitation

Please, Please, Please consider FARMING

WE CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT FOOD – AGRICULTURE!

You cannot imagine how proud I would be to say, “MY SON IS A FARMER!!!

Cows (Milk)! Beans! Vegetables! Wheat! Chickens (Eggs!) Fruit!!!

Believe it or not, there are TWO companies out here –

A.J.’s Produce and Bubba’s Produce

I kid you not. On YOU. They are out here and you know who they are…

ENGINEERING is also CRUCIAL.

Problem-solving and developing products to help our nation survive. We are beyond building. We have to thrive and grow now.

When was the last time you invented something?

~ Umi

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So, the hospital placed me in a really cool spot.

The owners are a cool Black couple.

They remind me of me and Zawji.

Probably because they’re the Beautiful Ones.

But I hope they don’t break each others hearts or whatever Prince said they do every time.

Anyway.

I have a radio and  I’m listening to my favorite New Orleans station (WYLD 98.5 – Google it) and Keith Sweat is playing all these love songs.

I haven’t heard R&B in a LONG Time.

I’ve been listening to second line and New Orleans music like (“Side piece” SMH ya’ll know what I’m talm bout SMH) I would post a video but I’m scared to actually listen to it. They have another song talm bout “Get out” too. But I think that one is getting played out. It’s funny NO has local music. )

So, I get out the hospital TODAY, get settled in, turn on the box and hear ALL these love songs and can’t stop thinking about my Beloved Sweetest Zawji.

It’s like he’s doing it on purpose.

I’ve been locked up over a week and now that I’m out, he’s like
ALL YOU’RE GOING TO THINK ABOUT IS ME!!!”

What can I do?

I was reading some old e-mails I sent him last year and resent a couple of them.

I don’t know what to do

BUT

Think about him.

So, I’m gonna do that for a while.

This chocolate isn’t helping either. 😛

BRB

Okay, now I’m going to type the blogs I wrote while I was in the hospital just so I can keep a record for myself of where my head was at.

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FRIDAY, MARCH 10, 2017

10:22 A.M.A.D.-JAMAL

NEW ORLEANS

I’m sitting here drinking this delicious coffee I know is making me shake! I got my Holy Qur’an. I’ve been reading but I want to write/plan.

Dr. Appt. Tuesday إن شاء الله

Trying to obtain housing but can’t afford to fix tooth.

Tooth is more important.

I can get housing anytime.

إن شاء الله I’ll be able to keep my appointment. And at least START the process! I’m anxious to get it out of the way. It’s terrible having to walk around and talk to people with a messed up grille. Embarrassing! But Allah is the Best Planner. Let me see if I can get out Monday. BRB I’ma talk to the Social Worker. إن شاء الله NM. الله told me just let it be. I can get an appt. anytime but I don’t want to start the discharge process and end up with nothing. I want to stay here as long as I can.

My food stamps came in today. But I still WANT to eat out at a restaurant. Self-Discipline. Wheat Bread, cream cheese & capers, cookies, milk, fish and fruit. I’ma hideout in the catcave a while. Kill some time. Lay Low. Get my cloak. Maybe the Tower instead. I’ll be glad when my P is over. Good I didn’t have to buy pads tho! الله أكبر

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SATURDAY, MARCH 11, 2017
(Happy Birthday Amir! 🙂 )

11:45 A.M.A.D.-JAMAL

NEW ORLEANS

Almost lunchtime. I had a really good night. At first thought was going to be worse than the worst nite of my life (when I tried to be a prostitute :/ ), turned out to be the third best (after 1. that last night at the club with Zawji and 2. when I gave birth to Ibni).

Felt like all my dreams came true. Everybody in my family was happy and peaceful. Almost all my friends. I’m still having trouble with Erika. I feel like she’s jealous. But she’s going to be happy for us too. Well, she IS in this new world. But I’ll get to that later. 😉 But I was truly happy and at peace! الحمد لله الله أكبر

I’m hungry for lunch. I weigh 148 lbs. Jamal noticed I gained weight! 🙂 He is the sweetest! He’s not here today. 😦 I might see him before I leave on Monday. إن شاء الله I’m excited about leaving. Entering a new chapter. I’ma apply for low-income housing so Ibni can come visit me in the Summer.

I’m gonna act like none of the horrible things in my life happened and create a new world where I’m truly and everybody else is TRULY happy no lies. No fakeness. The Hereafter!

So, I’m leaving on Monday. I can keep my dentist appt! Yaaaay!

The doctor said I have a lot of talent. I didn’t ask her how she knew. I’m scared to be famous زوجي says. I think he’s right. I’m afraid it’s going to make me rich and I don’t want to be mean to people like Fatima was to me.

Money and fame change people and I like me the way I am.

So, I’m running from it.

I know they want me to be Ella. Or play the tambourine. Or something. But A. I don’t want to coon and B. I don’t want to change.

So, I’ll just sing for whomever happens to be around when I’m coloring. LOL 😛 And زوجي, of course.

Billy Dee said he only started acting in order to buy art supplies. LOL.

I’m like that.

😛

I just want زوجي and الله to be pleased. زوجي is always right. Kim (who owns the place I’m staying in now) says she is always right too. We’ll see.

I’m glad I came to the hospital. I’m off the street and I can apply for low-income housing. Section 8 too. إن شاء الله without living on the street.

I’ma buy a day pass on Tuesday and pick up my cloak إن شاء الله.

IHOP or Clio’s for a good meal and settle in.

Grocery store for food.

Bread, milk, cream cheese, capers, kippers, fruit, veggies, beans, fish, garlic, rosemary, ice cream, cookies.

الحمد لله

الله أكبر

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SUNDAY, MARCH 12, 2017

1:12 P.M.

NEW ORLEANS

I was going to write Jamal a letter but why? He’s sweet but he’s not MY JAMAL. I like him like I like Broke and Corey and Thomas (the Zulu) – A LOT – But I can’t get with neither of them. So why entertain them? One man – Amad Jamal. I have no time or space to waste on anyone else. It’s better to be homeless than live with a man other than My Baby, Jamal. That’s what I learned in Graduate Homemaking Class – How To Take Care Of Your Husband 401. It’s Better To Be Homeless Than To Live With A Man Other Than Your Husband.

I had to take remedial Muslim classes because I failed the Christian classes with Costello LOL :/ I should have learned then. I got it now.

It is better to be homeless than live with a man other than Amad-Jamal.

100%!!!

I Love Him So Much It’s INEXPLICABLE!

I KNOW he is the man Allah Created Me To Help.

I just have to wait until the proper time and place.

New Orleans is the place now.

I don’t know how long.

I don’t want to live anywhere else.

I got stagnant for a minute but زوجي remedied the situation.

إن شاء الله I’ll be able to take some classes at the Rec Center. Summer is coming! إن شاء الله I’ll have my place and Ibni can come.

I can’t believe it’s almost been a year since I left L.A. June I went to the A. July NO. Jan LA. Feb NO. I think I live here now. Maybe I’ll get an I.D. but I want to change my name. Man. Here I go again. I was in this exact same predicament in 2008. It’s going to be interesting to see how زوجي works this out.

I have to get my birth certificate, my name change document, change my name in court, then get a Louisiana I.D. simple enough 🙂

I wonder if I can just change my name with my California I.D. Hmmmmmmm

I’ll have to look into that.

It was easy to do in L.A. Should be easy here too.

Anybody changed their name in Louisiana???

HMU @ SisterCaptainLoveAllah@gmail.com

Thanks!!!

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I can’t stop thinking about that Tiffany’s diamond!

Here’s a poem I wrote in the hospital…

JAZZ WAS BORN IN HEAVEN

LOUIS ARMSTRONG IT’S FATHER

NELLIE LUTCHER MOTHER

BASIN WAS THE STREET

TUBAS AND TRUMPETS ANNOUNCED IT’S BIRTH

TROMBONES, THE FIRST WAIL

2ND LINES PARADED THROUGH

THE ONLY TOWN WHERE FUNERALS

MASK AS FESTIVALS

TASSLED UMBRELLAS DANCED HIGH IN THE AIR

AS HORSE-DRAWN CARRIAGES WEAVED IN AND OUT

OF PURPLE, GOLD AND GREEN CLAD PARTY-GOERS

TOSSING CONFETTI BEADS AND STREAMS

FAT TUESDAY WAS MOST LIKELY THE DATE

HEAVEN, THE PLACE

ALSO KNOWN AS NEW ORLEANS

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OMG! I had THE BEST MEAL!!!

I knew about this restaurant (halal) but it was so far from everything, I threw the flier away.

Well, turns out the spot I’m in now is walking distance, so I G’d it, found it and went and had the best meal I’ve had since I went to McCormick & Schmidt’s two years ago and this was much better.

The restaurant is called Lebanon’s Cafe.

I had the sauteed vegetables and OH MY GOD!

They were covered in feta and mozarella cheese (and the variety of vegetables was outstanding. I had broccoli, cauliflower, green beans, green and red bell peppers, eggplant, onions, tomatoes, squash) and it was absolutely amazing. They roasted it in the same pan it was served to me in and it was layered over a bed of Basmati rice and it was delectable! Cost the same as IHOP but tastes ten times as good AND you get twice as much food.

They also have something called Lebanon-styled Iced Tea and it was like drinking roses. So Good and refreshing! I would kill for the recipe. I think I might pick some roses and make a tea out of the petals. It tasted that good.

Anyway. I’m sorry I had to move over here to try them out. Would have been well worth the trip from downtown and there’s a streetcar stop right out front. (St. Charles)

Next time, I’ma try the salmon! إن شاء الله

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(I have to remind myself occasionally that this is a HOMEMAKING BLOG 🙂 )