“BLACKISH”??? AW, HELL NAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

BLACK VS. BLACKISH

AS-SALAAMU ‘ALAIKUM BLACK SISTERS,

You may have already heard that there is a new T.V. show coming out called “Blackish.”

I GUESS BLACK IS NOT BEAUTIFUL ANYMORE. IT ISN’T SOMETHING TO BE PROUD OF ANYMORE.

Now, We Are “Black-ish.” …Sorta Black. …KINDA Black.  …Just a little Black. At least according the the T.V. producers and the actors who are on the show.

These actors are sellouts who have no LOVE of Self. They just want to be on T.V. cooning to the delight of their devil-slavemasters who are only too happy to reward them with a piece of fried chicken, a buttered biscuit and a pat on the head, to help them degrade their own people. If these so-called Negroes had any Knowledge of Self they would say it loud “I’M BLACK AND I’M PROUD!!! and spit in right in the devils’ faces and tell them to Kiss Their Grits!

Fifty years ago we were BLACK AND PROUD! Now, we’re BlackISH??? Hell Naw. We are the ABORIGINAL BLACK People of the Planet Earth – THE FIRST AND THE LAST (If there be a Last) – Members of The Asiatic BLACK Nation – THE MAKERS, THE OWNERS, THE CREAM OF THE PLANET EARTH, THE GODS OF THE UNIVERSE!!!!!!

Everybody on Earth came from us but these Devils want us to be so ashamed of being BLACK THAT they make a T.V. SHOW, that you love NOW, and have you calling yourself, “BLACKISH.” What you’re really saying is, “I really wish I was white like you, Mr. Devil Caucasian. I’m not Black, no, no, no, Mr. Devil, (chuckle) You’ve got it all wrong. I’m just “Black-ish…” (toothy grin) You see, Mr. white Devil, I love you so much that I’m willing to deny my own self (Black) just so maybe you will love me like I love you, Mr. Devil. Maybe, if I say I’m just Black-ish, you will finally accept me as you accept your own kind, Mr. Devil. It’ll show you how much I hate my own self and kind and how much I love you! I love you so much that I want to be you!!! And maybe, just maybe, if I’m lucky, one day God will answer my prayers and make me completely white like you, Mr. Devil Caucasian.” (Lifts head up, flashes pearly whites and gets up off knees).

THIS SHOW IS THE MOST INSULTING THING THEY COULD HAVE EVER THOUGHT OF. AND WE ARE SO BLIND, DEAF AND DUMB THAT WE ARE NOT EVEN OFFENDED!! BLACKISH!!!!!!!!!!!?????!!!!!!!!!????? THE HELL IF I EVER CALL MYSELF “BLACKISH.” I KNOW WHO I AM. AND I KNOW THAT WE ARE THE BEST. THE CREATORS OF THE UNIVERSE AND EVERYTHING IN IT. GOD IS A BLACKMAN. AND BECAUSE WE ARE THEIR SLAVES, WE ARE LETTING THE DEVILS GET AWAY WITH CALLING US – GOD’S CHOSEN PEOPLE, WHO ARE BLACKER THAN HE (GOD) IS – BLACKISH!!!

THE BLACKMAN IS GOD. THE “BLACKISH” MAN IS NOTHING BUT A CREATION OF THE DEVIL CAUCASIANS. HE IS NOT THIS NOR THAT. JUST LIKE ANOTHER NAME THEY CAME UP WITH FOR THEIR SLAVES – NEGRO (ALSO A CREATION OF THE DEVIL CAUCASIANS THAT MEANS NOT THIS NOR THAT.)

BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL and this wicked devil makes a T.V SHOW openly calling us “BLACKISH”?!?!!!!! THE HELL!!!!!!!!!

AS IF BLACK is not the BEST COLOR. You would be a FOOL to watch that self-hating white-supremacist propaganda.

I don’t want you to call Smiley and West and go out and picket outside ABC studios begging them to cancel the show because they hurt your feelings. The devil producers don’t care if they hurt your feelings. They KNOW they hurt your feelings! They just hope you are too asleep to do something about it.

They made this show for their Black audience. So, hit them where they’ll feel it – in the pocket. Although, the motivation for producing this program is to attack Black Self-Love and Knowledge of Self, as well as Black Pride, it cannot be produced without funding. Funding comes from advertisers. Advertisers will not pay if viewership is low. All you have to do is not watch it. The advertisers will pull out – SHOW CANCELLED. Just as easy as that.

Let’s make this post viral. Grassroots Activism is the most effective. Facebook brought about the fall of the corrupt regimes in the Muslim world. SPREAD THE WORD.

Turn off the T.V anyway! All they do is subliminally teach is to hate yourself (BLACK) and love them (BlackISH is white supremacy). According to the T.V. producers and the coons who agreed to be on the show, Being Black is something to be ashamed of now. “I’ll just say I’m ‘blackish’.” It’s so subtle and so deceiving you don’t even realize you’re being programmed to hate your ownself!

I’m not even going to go into the other connotation of the word. :/

BOYCOTT HOLLYWOOD!!!

 

HEAVEN

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beautiful and Beloved Black “Heavens” 😉

Our Beloved Apostle, The Most Honourable and Humble Elijah Muhammad (May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah Forever Be Upon Him) Taught Us That:

“A WOMAN IS THE ONLY HEAVEN A MAN HAS.”

Sisters, I don’t know about you, but that makes me feel very special. To know that it is impossible for a man to know Heaven without me, is the greatest knowledge a woman can possess. It is our responsibility to educate ourselves in the BEST manner, how to go about this Divine Responsibility, Sisters. We should constantly be seeking ways to make our husband’s life Heaven on Earth.

Our wants and needs always come second to his. He will supply them eagerly if you keep him happy and satisfied. I am not married but I constantly think about it. And I treat myself the way I plan to treat my husband. I am preparing myself for my role as “Heaven” for my husband.

The best way I can think of to provide Heaven for my husband is to make sure that he never misses a prayer. If he is working then he, understandably, will miss it, but when he is home, prayer is the most peaceful, relaxing and unifying act a family can perform.

Fajr (the morning prayer) is THE most important prayer of the day. According to Message To The Blackman in America:

“NOTE: The morning prayer is of two parts, the first part called FARD in Arabic and the other part called TRADITION, and it is made obligatory. The morning prayer being obligatory is called FARD, meaning the early morning.”

Sisters, the only reason a person would miss Fard prayer is LAZINESS. The “Adhan” (Call to Prayer) for the morning prayer helps you rise, “PRAYER IS BETTER THAN SLEEP” it says. There is no excuse for missing Fard prayer. And I can assure you that it is the surest way to get your day off to the perfect start.

Give yourself plenty of time to prepare. Make up your bed, groom yourself, make wudu (if you and your husband have been intimate, a full ablution is required, so make allowances for the extra time) and get dressed. Wake up your children and have them do the same.

Since it is still dark for Fajr, I like to set a very peaceful and relaxing mood. I light candles instead of turning on the lights and burn incense and have my son read or we listen to the Messenger (PBUH) until it is time for prayer (4:30). By then, the ambience throughout my whole house is sacrosanct and holy and we are in “a position of prayer.”

Following Fajr, because it is still so early, there is no need to rush to do the things we have planned for the day. We are already dressed and ready and it is usually still dark out. We get a head start so, we can go about our daily tasks leisurely. There is no greater peace we can offer our husbands than the freedom from time restraints.
 الحمد لله AL HAMDULLILAH (ALL PRAISE IS DUE TO ALLAH!)

By the time the rest of the world is just waking up, sometimes I’m already finished with my major household duties for the day. Then I can go run errands, arriving as soon as the businesses open up and before the employees get cranky and frustrated. Employees are ALWAYS friendlier early in the morning.

This woman once told me, if you can’t make it there (the store where she worked) by eleven, you might as well stay home. It gets crazy after eleven. That’s when our Brothers and Sisters who need Islam really bad get up.

You can do your housework, run errands and be home before Zhuhr (noon) this time of year.

But, I digress, Beginning Your Day in Humble Submission to The Lord of The Worlds is Bearing Witness to His Greatness and Making Manifest your Submission to Whatever He Has Planned For You That Day.

Futhermore, by Making Salat (Prayer) Throughout the Rest of your Day Affords you the Blessed Opportunity to Withdraw from the Daily “Grind” (slang) and Treat Yourself to A Spiritual Refreshment Five Times a Day, in an Atmosphere of PERFECT PEACE Within a World of Strife and Struggle – THE PERFECT HEAVEN – Our Most Loving and Beneficent Saviour, Allah, MASTER FARD MUHAMMAD, TO WHOM PRAISES ARE DUE FOREVER, Has Made Available to Ourselves, Our Children and Our Husband.

A Common Sense Approach to Infidelity

Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim

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******UPDATE****** June 14, 2014

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Dearly Beloved Black Sisters (And Brothers 😉 )

Life involves growth and change and the more I live and learn about life, my views are constantly in a state of flux. I have come to accept the fact that however unacceptable it may seem to be, there are double standards when it comes to men and women. We need to just accept that fact. It is understandably more difficult for the Sisters because typically, the more favorable standard is generally in favor of the Brothers.

Brothers, you need to realize this and stop being “simps” and step up and be men. Stop saying stupid stuff like, “The Blackwoman is God” in deference of your responsibility. Stop saying you want your wife to work deflecting your responsibility as provider. Stop acting like women are your occupational equals, in a silly attempt to gain favor with your enemies who introduced this damaging idea.

As with anything in regards to gender, infidelity involves double standards as well. The husband is the head of the household, therefore he has the duty to control, provide for and protect his wife. If she strays, it is his duty to use any means to return her to her place as a respectable woman. This may include locking her in your bedroom, Brothers. Don’t shy away from your responsibility. Do whatever you have to do. If she persists in her indecent ways, you may be forced to give her a spanking. (Think Ricky and Lucy). Do not let her emasculate you, Brothers. BE MEN!

Your wife is obligated to submit to you. If she falls short in her duty, you must not fall in yours. Our families are suffering because of the poison that has been put in us by our enemies. We must return to traditional familial values if we ever expect to regain our place on top of civilization.

Sisters, our situation is different. Obviously, we cannot use force to control our husbands. They are physically more powerful than we are. Therefore, by necessity, we must use other means to return our husbands to their domestic responsibilities. Previously, my advice to the Sisters was overwhelmingly in favor of abandoning their husband if he was unfaithful. Now, I am convinced that that would not be the best decision.

If he strays, you must use your natural femininity that attracted him to you in the beginning to recapture his heart. Cry! Many times Brothers feel the need to test how much you care, especially if you have been married for a long time. Crying in front of him will let him know you still care and that you ain’t too proud to show him how much you love him.

Try a new look; a new hairdo and/or buy some new lingerie. Tell your children you plan to make a special dinner with his favorite meal and to give you some privacy. Dress the table and yourself as if you are dining at a fancy restaurant. Play some violins in the background.

And plan a really romantic evening where you make him feel worshipped like the God that he is.

Use your children to your advantage. Suggest a vacation or family outing. Remind him that his life is with you and your children and he is risking ruining your children’s lives.

Brothers are proud of their families. A good wife and mother is difficult to come by. Remind him of how ALLAH disapproves of adultery and the complications, confusion and awkwardness that result from divorce.

As always keep up your appearance as if you are going out even when you are staying in the house, i.e. keep your hair combed, use perfumed oils, wear jewelry, nice clothes, etc.  Shower him with affection. Convince him that there is no woman in the Universe better than you for him. Remind him why he married you in the first place.

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(ORIGINAL ARTICLE)

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Dearly Beloved Black Sisters!

I’m sure we’ve all heard stories about women fighting over men. Some of you may have even been involved in fights over a man. I never could understand why a woman would beat up another woman for sweethearting with her husband.

This behaviour has baffled me since I was little and it still does to this day. I have seen women cut and KILLED over some married man. Sisters, we should show more love and respect for each other as well as the sanctity of marriage.

Why would a woman take her anger out on the other woman? This anger is misdirected. It is her husband with whom she should be angry. Whomever the other woman is is irrelevant. The problem is her husband.

Okay, let’s say she beats up the other woman, drives her off and the other woman agrees to never come back. Is that going to stop her husband from going to look for her? No! If the other woman breaks up with him, he’ll eventually find someone else to replace her and begin cheating on his wife again with some other woman. Clearly the problem lies somewhere within the marriage and if the wife does not recognize this, she will be getting into fights with every woman with whom her husband cheats until she wakes up and realizes that the other women are not the problem.

We have to use intelligence, Sisters. As with any problem, we must get to to the ROOT, which is the unfaithful husband.

I don’t know anything that can change a man but Islam. The Divine Supreme Wisdom Teachings of The Most Honorable Elijah Muhammad (May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah forever be upon him) dignifies the Blackman and gives him a sense of morality and self-respect that he never knew in Christianity. He knows Who the Real God is and he knows who HE is. This brings him dignity, increases his intelligence and a gives him a newfound love, respect, appreciation and concern for his Blackwoman.

Cutting Hair

BISMILLAH

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beloved and Beautiful Asiatic Sisters of the Planet Earth!

I am a single mother of a son and he has to always look good. That means he must be clean, neat and well-groomed at all times. Tight haircuts are essential to being a clean, neat and well-groomed Blackman.

We must teach our boys at a young age that they have to have their hair cut on a regular basis and it is something that they will have to do for the rest of their lives. We must get them to the point where they feel uncomfortable if their hair gets too long.

The hair is one of the first things people see whenever they look at a male because of its proximity to the face, so it has a big impact on one’s impression. We must make sure our son(s) and husband always have fresh haircuts.

Being a single mother, getting my son’s hair cut every week can be very costly. Barbershops charge $15 for a haircut nowadays and that is more than I can comfortably afford. So, I looked into alternative ways to keep my son looking sharp.

Someone suggested that I take him to the Barber College. The charge is only $5 per cut and $3 for a line-up. So, I took him and I was very pleased with the results.

After about two years of taking him to the Barber College and watching the students learn, the idea came to me that if they could do it, why couldn’t I? So, I began watching closely and finally decided to buy some clippers.

I told my son’s regular student barber what I had in mind. He was very supportive and even went with me next door to the beauty supply and helped me select a pair of clippers. They were less than $20.00. I bought some used T-Outliners for the line-up but they didn’t work right so I just threw them away and haven’t bought another pair. So, he just uses my razors and lines himself up.

btw Some Barbershops are offering $5.00 haircuts now, but I went to one of those places and it was jam-packed. My time is valuable. I don’t feel comfortable sitting in a Barbershop for two and a half hours with a bunch of men watching filth on television. So, we left.

I’ve been cutting his hair in our kitchen ever since. It is so much more convenient. I don’t have to go anywhere. I can do it at whatever hour I want. I put the hair directly in the garbage as soon as I cut it, so cleaning up is minimal. And best of all, IT’S FREE!

ON POLYGAMY

BISMILLAHI RAHMANI RAHIM

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Messenger Elijah Muhammad’s Teachings on Polygamy

Reprinted from from the January 11, 1974 edition of Muhammad Speaks Newspaper (Page 13)

“There are a lot of crazy and nasty minded people in this world. Some of them write me (husbands and wives write me) asking for freedom to take over other women and other men.

You stand today as much to be charged with committing fornication and adultery as you were before ever you heard Islam!

I wish you would stay out of the category of fools!

Elijah Muhammad, Messenger of Allah”

 

This Should Be All Of Us, Sisters!

BISMILLAH

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beautiful and Fearless Sisters!

The Honorable Elijah Muhammad (May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah Be Upon Him Forever) taught the Blackman that white men have been beating and raping his women for as long as we have been here in his country. And until he learns to defend his woman, live or die, die or live, he will never be respected by the decent and intelligent societies of the earth.

He taught him that the white man comes into his yard and beats his woman and he just stands there with folded arms! This is because the devil put fear in them when they were babies.

But, our Beloved Messenger (May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah Forever Be Upon Him) taught his followers that we have to defend each other no matter what! “We both go down together!”

This Sister was probably the only help this poor Black man had. And I’m sure those other devils ended up beating her up too (after this picture was taken). But she loved him enough to at least try! She could have done nothing and let them kill her husband, but she would have had to live the rest of her life with the knowledge that she just sat back, watched and let it happen.

We have been conditioned to think that we can’t make a difference. We are just one person. But what if the other people in the area helped? FEAR! That is the devil’s greatest weapon. The Honorable Elijah Muhammad (Peace and Blessings of Allah forever be upon him) taught us that upon our submission, Allah will remove all that fear that the devil put in us.

Muslims fear Allah only. He has power over the steel that the devil made his weapons out of. He can make it backfire and shoot the devil in his own face, if it pleases Him. We are not afraid of any police because Allah is the Greatest and we know that our Nation will live forever.

So what if ten million of us die?!?! The remaining thirty million will enjoy Freedom, Justice and Equality. But we cannot continue to be afraid to defend ourselves and let the coward devils intimidate us. We have to unite under the banner of Islam – The Only Solution To The Dire Straits In Which We Are.

Baby Daddies

Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim
In the Name of Allah,
Master Fard Muhammad,
To Whom Praise is Due Forever

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beloved and Beautiful Sisters!

I don’t know about you, but whenever I hear a Brother or Sister refer to someone as their “Baby Mama” or “Baby Daddy”, I just cringe. It is abominable that such an affronting term has become so commonplace.

This society of wickedness has given birth to a whole new array of shameful concepts and ideas. From “Baby Mamas and Daddies” to “Prophylactics” to  “Home Paternity Tests”. It is unbelievable the extent to which we have become accustomed to fornication and adultery.

Our Beloved Messenger, The Most Honorable Elijah Muhammad (May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah Forever Be Upon Him) has taught us that our enemy, the devil caucasian makes evil “fair-seeming”. Which is exactly what he does. A thorough examination of American society will bear witness to this unfortunate reality.

Everywhere you look, you see people, who are not married, sweethearting with each other. Adultery is EVERYWHERE! One would have to be blind not to notice such public displays of outright disobedience to the Law of Allah (God). It is on the television, in movies, books, newspapers and magazines, on the radio, billboards, and even seen among the public.

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Not only does the devil bombard us with his acts of evil and wickedness; he makes mockery of those who shun his evil practices and would rather choose to obey Allah (God) and guard their chastity. He makes it seem as though something is wrong with you if you are still a virgin in High School. Making our youth feel like outcasts if they (especially the Brothers) are not sexually active, with multiple partners. And that they are not “cool.” The devil ridicules marriage, as though it is some type of shackle. 

Our babies are taught to become interested in romance when they are still in the cradle, through the devils cartoons and fairy tales.

And we, Black People in America, buy right into this unrighteous notion that we must be promiscuous in order to “fit in” to this wicked society.  This is contrary to our nature of Submission to the Will of Allah. We were Created to be Chaste and Righteous Muslims, but following after our former slavemasters we have fallen off the Straight Path. And as a result, the rate of children being born out of wedlock has skyrocketed.

I remember reading an alarming statistic that a Black child had a better chance of growing up with both parents during slavery than he has now. That is unfathomable. However, it is entirely possible considering the depth of depravity we, as a people, have fallen into.

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It is not our fault, however. For 400 years, we had no other teacher than our wicked slavemaster, who was made evil by nature. So naturally, we followed after his wicked ways. But, now Allah Has Come and He Raised Up The Most Honorable Elijah Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) to Lead, Teach and Guide us into the Knowledge of Self. All Praise is Due to Allah!

Now, Dear Sister, you have the choice to Accept Your Own And Be Yourself or you can continue to follow the disgraceful ways of your enemy, whose time is up. The wise thing to do would be to reform yourself and be a good example for your children.

If you have a “Baby Daddy,” it is okay. Allah does not remind us of any of our previous indiscretions after we have Accepted Our Own. But it is up to you to “turn over a completely new leaf”, as the saying goes, and reinvent yourself as the wholesome, decent and intelligent Blackwoman you were Created to be.

Do not have “boyfriends”. Do not entertain any men in your home, nor go to their homes. This is continuing in the practice that got you a “Baby Daddy”. You have to be completely chaste now. Dress modestly and dress your daughters modestly. There is nothing worse than seeing a half-dressed woman walking down the street with her apparently fatherless children in tow!

We have to change the image we present to the world and the only way we can do it, is by actually changing. If you have a “Baby Daddy”, admit to yourself that you have been doing something wrong. Then and only then will you be able to take the proper steps to improve your life.

You want a husband and a FATHER for your children, who can help you raise them 24/7. If you continue in the same pattern, you will only end up with more of the same, i.e, more babies and more “Baby Daddies.”

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It is a fact that some men target women with children, because they conclude, “If she did it once, she’ll do it again.” They take advantage of your desperation for a husband and father for your children and use you for sex. Regardless to his declarations of love, do not become physically involved with a man until after he marries you. This is the only way you can ensure he will not end up as just your “Baby Daddy”.

If the marriage ends, he will be your “ex-husband.” He won’t be your “Baby Daddy.” Just the fact that you were actually married speaks volumes about your character. It demonstrates that you are virtuous enough to uphold the values and morals of a decent and intelligent, respectable Black woman.

An ex-husband is also more likely to take an active role in your child’s upbringing than will a “Baby Daddy.” Because he loved you enough to marry you, he invested more of himself in the children.

Dear Sisters, we must redeem ourselves in the eyes of Our Saviour, Allah (God), and the world. We are perceived the whole world over as nothing but half-dressed whores, sexually exploited in the media and in the imaginations of every nationality of men. We have been used and abused since slavery. And only we can change this low-based perception of ourselves.

It begins with us as individuals first. We each have to be the paradigm. So we can show and prove to our sisters, who are still caught up in the devil’s world of sport and play, that they too, are capable of being respectable, righteous women. And, In sha Allah (If it is the Will of Allah), we will return every Blackwoman of America back to her rightful position on Top of Civilization, as the Goddess of the Universe, overnight!

Submission

Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim
In the Most Holy and Righteous Name of Our Beneficent Saviour and Deliverer

Master Fard Muhammad,
To Whom Forever Be Praised In The Heaven and The Earth

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beloved Sisters,

The Honorable Elijah Muhammad (May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah Forever Be Upon Him) taught us that the Blackman has “more powerful brains” than the Blackwoman because he was “made to rule.” That is Knowledge of Self, Blackwoman! Knowing that the Blackman was made to rule and not you. Acknowledging that the Blackman has more powerful brains than you is so liberating! You can finally put an end to all of this trying to be smarter and greater than men!

Allah’s Messenger to The Black Nation (PBUH) HAS DECLARED THAT THE BLACKMAN HAS MORE POWERFUL BRAINS THAN THE BLACKWOMAN!

This does not mean that we are lacking in the area of intelligence. On the contrary, The Honorable Elijah Muhammad teaches us that “Man is the 1st self. And woman is the 2nd self.” Yes, we are second to the Blackman, but we are still the Original People, who is Allah.

There is no shame in being second to the God of the Universe. It makes sense. The Blackman is the Ruler and we are the Helpmate. The Honorable Elijah Muhammad (PBUH) taught the Brothers that, “Without our women, we would be pretty lonesome creatures.” We complement each other.

Following after the devil Caucasian woman has put us, Blackwomen, in competition with our own Blackman, whom we were Created to Help and Support. It has us acting crazy and other than ourselves. But All praise is due to Allah for the Most Honorable and Humble Elijah Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) for guiding us into the Path of Truth. Will you accept your place on that Path, Dear Sister? Will you Accept Your Own and Be Yourself?

Or are you going to be stiff-necked and hard-headed and cling to the debilitating ways of your oppressors?

That way will only lead to slavery, suffering and finally death.

Don’t you want to be successful? Don’t you want to live a life of unlimited progress?

Then you must accept that the Blackman has more powerful brains than you and submit to him!

In order for us to be successful as a Nation, we all must submit to Our Saviour, Who Delivered us and Returned us to our own, Master Fard Muhammad, to Whom Praise is Due Forever. Additionally, within our homes, we have levels of submission as well.

As the woman, we must submit to our husband, who is the Head of the Household, in order for our homes to function properly. You must rear your children to submit to him as well as to yourself. This hierarchy creates peace.

No man wants his wife arguing with him and challenging him. We must submit to him and recognize him as the head. We can make suggestions and voice our opinions if he asks for them, because Allah made us intelligent just so that we can be useful in assisting our husbands. But we must submit to our husbands decisions. If you cannot submit to your husband you will never have peace nor a well-balanced lifestyle.

The courtship process is when we determine if the Brother courting us is a Brother whom we can respect and honor and one to whom we can submit. We should be gauging his intelligence, his wisdom and common sense. Does he submit his will to the Will of Allah? How does he handle money? Whose company does he keep? How is he with decision-making? If you find that the answers to these questions leave you satisfied and happy, then you consider if you can submit to him in everything.

This is the area where most women drive their men away. The Honorable Elijah Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) teaches us that:

“Woman must always submit and recognize man as the head. Even if the husband is a junky husband; yet he is the man. By nature man can’t submit to the woman. Holy Quran says woman has equal rights as he has rights over her. But these rights are defined. We are talking about rights now, not authority. Rights are not authority. Holy Quran says he is exalted over you. He is the sustainer over you. He is the authority and woman is subject to the authority.

“Love makes us humble to the law. If we love each other we won’t disagree. When you love someone, you love them for yourself.”

Success in the home depends on you, Blackwoman. As soon as we stop competing with our Blackman and submit willingly and humbly to him, as well as to our own divinely appointed position as Helpmate, Peace and Tranquility will return to our homes.

How to Attract and Keep a GOOD Husband

BISMILLAH

IN THE NAME OF ALLAH, THE BENEFICENT, THE MOST MERCIFUL
MASTER FARD MUHAMMAD,
TO WHOM PRAISE IS DUE FOREVER

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beautiful Sisters!

Dear Sisters, I am sure we all can agree that there are two types of women. Those who can keep a man, and those who can’t. For most of my life, I have been in the category of the latter. But All Praise is Due to Allah for the Honorable Elijah Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him). This man taught me how to be a good “wife”. Not girlfriend. Not “baby mama.” Not “friend”. Not anything less than A WIFE. He also taught me how to attract a good man and how to keep him.

Naturally, all women want the companionship of a good husband. Allah (God) Created the woman to be the helpmate of man and for man to be the provider for woman. The Honorable Elijah Muhammad (PBUH) taught us that, “A man and woman are like twins before marriage and after marriage are one. Man and woman are part of each other, flesh and blood. Holy Qur-an states you are created one of each other.”

However, before we should even consider entering into a relationship with a Brother, we must qualify ourselves and make sure we possess those qualities that are desirable and suitable for a wife. The first thing a potential suitor notices is our appearance. So, we must always present ourselves to the world as decent and intelligent Blackwomen – who are clean, neat and well-groomed. At all times! Even if we are just going out of the house to check the mail.

If we want our Black Brothers to treat us like the The Mothers of Civilization that we are, with respect and reverence, then we must emanate self-respect. If we go places half-dressed or unclean and unkempt, then we give the impression that we have a low opinion of ourselves. Accordingly, our men will have a low opinion of us. And thus, we will attract men who disrespect us.

On the other hand, if we have enough decency and self-respect to dress modestly and take care to always be clean, neat and well-groomed, then we show the world that we respect ourselves. And consequently, we will attract men who reciprocate that respect.

So, it begins with us, Sisters. Ultimately, something as simple and easy as your outward appearance will determine your choices for a husband. In short, you will not attract a husband who will respect you if you don’t manifest respect for yourself. I know you have heard that before. But yet, I still hear women talk about they want men to respect them, while they are dressed like a prostitute! What man can respect a prostitute? Or a woman who looks like one!?!?

We have to look at ourselves with new eyes, Sisters. Stop reading this right now and go look in the mirror. Go look. I’ll wait

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Okay. How do you look right now??? Did you see a clean, neat and well-groomed, decent and intelligent Black woman? Or did you see a so-called African-American who is up from slavery, and does not care about how she looks or goes half-dressed???

Right now, you should make the commitment to always be clean, neat and well-groomed, EVEN AROUND THE HOUSE. You never know when someone will show up unexpectedly or if an emergency will arise when you have to leave the house in a hurry. “If you stay ready, you don’t have to get ready.”

Let’s develop the daily habits of waking up, making up the bed AS SOON AS WE GET OUT OF IT, grooming, and getting dressed EVERY DAY, whether we are going somewhere or not. Do you think a husband wants to look at his wife walking around the house looking unkempt? Emphatically, NO!

You should always be beautiful, in order to keep your husband attracted to you. If you don’t keep up your appearance, he will start looking for beauty in other women and we don’t want that. It is entirely up to you and it is absolutely possible to keep your husband focused and seeing you as the beautiful woman with whom he fell in love. Take pride in your beauty as an Asiatic Blackwoman and be clean, neat and well-groomed FROM THE MOMENT YOU WAKE UP UNTIL YOU GO TO BED EVERY NIGHT.

Single women need to develop these habits now in preparation for the day Allah blesses us with a husband and also for the reasons mentioned above.

APPEARANCE is primary because before you even look at the Brother or open your mouth to speak, your appearance has already spoken for you. The main things to remember concerning our appearance are, “Am I covered?” and “Am I clean, neat and well-groomed?” If we always consider these things then we won’t have to worry so much about attracting the wrong men. We want our appearance to say, “I am an intelligent Blackwoman, with enough decency and self-respect to dress modestly and neatly. So do not approach me unless you are decent and intelligent enough to treat me in the same manner in which I treat myself.”

Your appearance alone can keep the “dogs” at bay. Good men know a Good woman when they see one. You can prevent the drama and headaches and heartbreaks that come from choosing the wrong man, just by the way you dress. Just by the way you dress! Yes, it is that simple. I bear witness.

The Holy Qur-an teaches that we are not even supposed to look an unknown Brother in the eye. Eye contact is usually the first contact between a man and a woman. So we lower our gaze. Believe me when I tell you that this deters men who are only attracted to us physically. And yes, women who are modestly dressed still attract men who are only interested in us physically.

Men with honorable intentions will take the added initiative to approach us in a more respectable manner. Whereas a man who only wants sex and/or a man who is not self-confident enough will be discouraged by our lowering our gaze and seek a less confident or loose woman.

There is so much to talk about on relationships. I have only scratched the surface. But In sha Allah, (If it is the Will of Allah) I will write more on the subject in the future. Thank you and May Allah Bless each and every one of you with a Righteous and Rich Husband!

****Notes to Remember****

*Never try to make eye contact with a Brother.
It shows desperation.
Let him come up to you.

*Never go up to speak to a Brother sitting in a car.
This is the practice of prostitutes.

*Never speak to a man over the phone after 9 pm.
This is too late for any kind of decent conversation.

*If you are standing outside speaking to a Brother,
take the conversation inside off the sidewalk.
This is more appropriate.

*Don’t settle.

*DO NOT IGNORE “WARNING SIGNS!!!”

*You should never be alone with a Brother who is not your husband for obvious reasons.

A Return to Proper Roles

Bismillah In the Name of Allah, Master Fard Muhammad

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beloved Sisters! Peace Be Upon You

As written in my previous blog, the Blackwoman in America has been reared by her enemies, who taught her to love and follow them.

Following the slavemaster has been the gravest mistake made by the Blackwoman in America, particularly because her enemy slavemaster is wicked and evil by nature, and the Blackwoman is righteous by nature!

This mistake has caused the Blackwoman to act in opposition to her own nature (righteousness). She is therefore unhappy and unsuccessful and is producing children who are incapable of functioning in high civilized society.

The most recent and most devastating mistake the Blackwoman has made in following her enemy slavemaster is: Joining her female slavemaster’s pursuit of equality with men, or so-called, “Women’s Liberation.” This treacherous act occurred at a most critical time in Black History: The Black Power Movement.

It was at this time that Black People had started to organize to try and better their condition in America. And then white women began to mimic the protests made by the Black populace, claiming that they were, all of a sudden, dissatisfied with their traditional role as Homemaker.

Unfortunately, the Blackwoman identified more with the white slavemasters than with her own Black people, abandoning the Black man and the struggle for Black Power in favor of the so-called “Women’s Liberation Movement”. As a result of this shameful betrayal, many detrimental but reversible problems enveloped the Black Community.

We, Blackwomen, can solve all of these problems, by humbly admitting that we made a terrible mistake. And then and only then can we take the proper steps to correct that mistake.

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The First Step is to ACCEPT OUR OWN AND BE OURSELVES and Return to our Natural Role as Homemakers.

When we joined the devil-woman in her pursuit of “liberation,” we abandoned our homes and families, leaving them without a caretaker, all in order to compete with our own Black men, at a time when they needed our support more than ever, just so that we could become the bread-winner. So, not only did we abandon the Blackman in the Struggle for Black Power, we also began to work against him, all to the delight of our common enemy. Consecutively, we abandoned and emasculated our Strong Black Men and neglected our own children.

Sadly, most Blackwomen still erroneously feel as though they can and should provide for themselves. As though they should have careers and make their own money. They think they should not depend on the Blackman to provide their needs. Many Blackwomen go so far as to say, “I don’t need a man! I’m an independent woman!”

This type of thinking has caused the destruction of the Black Family. Women were made to be dependent on men. And men were made to supply the things women depend on. We must stop trying to be the equals of men. We are NOT men. We should not be competing with men; trying to have careers like men, going half on rent and bills and whatnot. This makes our poor Blackmen feel inadequate, unwanted and unnecessary. Any man who doesn’t feel less of a man if, and actually wants his wife to go out and work, has the mind of a slave. He has not yet learned The Knowledge of Himself, which dictates that he should not depend on anyone but himself.

Nature made the man the provider. In order to feel like a man, he must be the provider and protector of his family. The man is the Head of the Household. This is the way nature intended. Allah Created The Blackman to Be The Leader. He is stronger physically because of his roles as Builder and Protector, and he is stronger mentally because of his Natural Role as Leader.

We, Blackwomen, have to accept that actual fact and stop competing with men. We will never be successful if we are always trying to take over the man’s role and responsibilities. We have followed the white woman to our detriment. Nature has made the woman dependent on the man. Any woman who feels as though she does not need a man, is lying to herself.

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Allah Created the Blackwoman to be a helpmate for the Blackman. The Honorable Elijah Muhammad (May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah forever be upon him) taught us that, “A Woman is the Only Heaven a Man Has.”  Our men need us, Sisters! We have failed them.

Our responsibility is to console our Blackmen. They are living in Hell, where they are outcast and stepped upon, all while trying to provide a decent life for us! And here we are, out there in it with them.

We should be at home, making Heaven for our families, so when our husband comes home, dinner is on the table in an immaculate home filled with peace and happiness where he can rest and recoup for whenever he has to go back out into this devil’s world. Instead, we are out TRYING TO MAKE OUR OWN MONEY, when we should be making our Blackman feel needed, by depending on him to give us money, instead of trying to prove that we DON’T need him and unnecessarily suffering the same rejection and hardships as he.

Again, Allah created us to be a helpmate. We can offer the most help to the Blackman by being feminine, beautiful Creatures, Created by Allah to give Heaven, Joy and Happiness to the Blackman. We should revel in this most essential role and try to be the BEST at it. This is our nature.

Many women are single mothers. These women should still cultivate and perfect proper homemaking skills, so when her husband comes along, she will be qualified to fulfill her Natural Role as Homemaker.

I was a single mother for 12 years and did not work any length of that time. I homeschooled my son and stayed home with him as a mother is supposed to. Single women should utilize government assistance, lower their expenses and dedicate their time and attention to the well-being of their children. Your child(ren) will greatly appreciate your love and attention and the bonds formed between you and your child(ren) will last a lifetime. You can hone your homemaking skills in preparation for your husband when Allah Blesses you with one.

Once we accept our Natural and Proper Role as Homemakers, we can live a heavenly, balanced, harmonious life, as one with our provider/leader/husband and build happy, peaceful and productive families. There will never be peace in a house wherein the man and woman are not living according to their own natural roles.

When I was in my twenties, I went roller skating with a Brother and I was racing him and he could barely even skate. It really opened my eyes when an older Sister approached him and helped him skate.

At the time, I was angry, but not really. I felt more enlightened than anything. I know it changed the way I looked at my role because I never forgot it. I don’t think she was trying to take him from me because she made sure I saw her. If you’re reading this Sister, THANK-YOU. That was love.

I must add, when it comes to roles, we must also draw the line in physical appearance too. This wicked society has gotten so far from the Love and Worship of Allah that they can turn a man into a woman and a woman into a man.

It started with men growing their hair long like women. The older generation objected to this but apparently not strongly enough. Probably because they couldn’t put their finger on precisely WHY it was wrong.

Next came the earring. This was also controversial, but the novelty overrided the objections and over time, men started acting more feminine in line with the newly acquired feminine physical characteristics.

This, coupled with the addition of homosexuality teachings in schools and the advent of “homophobia” in society has made today’s generation okay with homosexuality and transsexuals.

The only way to correct this trend is to draw a sharp line between the physical appearance of the sexes as there was in the beginning.

Women wear long hair and earrings.
Men cut their hair.

Women wear dresses and skirts.
Men wear pants.

This is the way you tell the sexes apart.

Yes, Dear Brothers and Sisters, my Grandmother never wore a pair of pants in her life. We have to be this extreme in our gender roles to reform from this wicked tendency of homosexuality and return to our nature.

There is nothing grosser than seeing a woman from a distance and getting closer and discovering she’s really a man!!!