ENDLESS LOVE

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ENDLESS LOVE

I met this guy when I was eight (8) years old.
I fell in love with his eyes and my Crush was Cold.
Kinda Brown and Mesmerizing
I Would Get Lost in His Gaze;
Oblivious To The World Around Me
You Could Say I Was In A Daze.
Only eight (8) years old and already in Love,
With a Ten-Year Old God, who fit me like a glove.

As the years passed,
My Love Only GREW.
And Although there were others,
Every Few Years It Would Renew.

I’d run into him somewhere,
And end up in his arms;
Lost in his eyes,
I’d succumb to his charms.

To this very day, my love deeply burns.
And Who Knows But Allah
What the Future Holds?

I thought he was a Muslim,
Because of his name,
But he’s not in the Nation,
And Sunni is not the same.

In love with a Non-Believer!
What Kind of Muslimah am I?
Allah is The Best Planner tho
And on Him do I rely.

All He Has to say is “Be.”
And it is.
So, if it’s His Will
Then I will be his.

But until then, I’ll just wait and stay chaste
Until that sure day when I’ll again see his face.

The Man Whom I Met When I Was Eight (8) Years Old.
Fast-Forward Thirty Years
And
My
Crush
Is
Ice
Cold!!!

❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

…and your eyes…

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I wanna hear your mouth say

What I’m Reading in Your Eyes….

They’re Telling Me You Love Me

But you don’t even REALIZE

That Me You Don’t Want to Love.

I’m TOO much WOMAN For You,

And I’ll ask you NOT to do the things,

You know you’re NOT supposed to do.

Like smoking when you smoke

Don’t even take a toke.

SMOKING CAN KILL YOU

DON’T TAKE LIFE FOR A JOKE.

And Drinking When You Drink.

Pour Your Liquor Down The Sink.

Allah Gave Us Restricted Laws So

We Don’t Even Have To Think (About That).

Eat One Meal A Day (And No Swine).

Because That’s the ONLY WAY

To Stop Sickness and Disease.

And Be Sure to Fast and Pray!

These are just a few things

That Will Make You A BETTER MAN.

I LOVE YOU AND I WANT YOU TO LIVE

As Long As You Can.

But You Don’t Know if you’re ready,

For a WOMAN LIKE ME,

Who Knows It’s You Whom She Wants,

And Whom You’re Going To Be!

Deep Down You know you want me too.

But I’ll Only Accept You When You Commit.

It’s Been Almost Thirty Years,

I know I never will relent.

Allah And I Know

What the FUTURE Holds

HE’S ON MY SIDE,

I’m not afraid of getting old.

I’ve got nothing but time

To Just Sit Here And Wait……

For Your Mouth To Tell Me Something

That Your Eyes Already Say.

 

BARBECUED SALMON, PARMESAN & MUSHROOM BURGERS

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beautiful Beloved Black Sisters!

My son, Hakim, has been known for his creative and often problem-solving solutions since he was very, very little (as young as three-years-old). So, once upon a time he came up with the brilliant idea of making a Salmon Burger. Before I knew that “Soy beans are only good for shortening your life,” we used to eat Soy Burgers. But after I read HOW TO EAT TO LIVE, I stopped buying them. And he really missed them.

So, together we came up with the idea to add mushrooms, Parmesan slices, sauteed onions and lettuce. Initially, I used to add a Garlic Sauce, but found that it doesn’t really need it.

Today, I barbecued the Salmon, but you can also broil it, bake or sauté it. Also, I don’t use store-bought barbecue sauce. I don’t know what all that stuff is that they put in it. All sorts of artificial colors and flavorings (slow-death) added, preservatives as well. So, until I am inclined to learn how to make my own sauce, I just marinate and grill.

Toast the bread with a little butter on top of the stove or grill (the edges) and sauté or grill the onions. If you are using sliced mushrooms, sauté the mushrooms in butter. I tried something different today. Instead of sliced mushrooms, I used portobello and I grilled them as well. Many people prepare burgers using only the portobello, but with the Salmon, it was very, very good.

I also forgot to buy the Parmesan when I went to the market yesterday, but although my son was disappointed when I told him, It doesn’t really need the Parmesan either. I don’t taste it. But my son says he does and he noticed the difference. It was juicy and delicious with just the Salmon, mushroom, grilled onions and lettuce. But if you want the cheese, just put some slices on top of the Salmon after it’s been cooked and put it in a moderate oven (about 300°F)

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I didn’t take this picture today.

SALMON

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Sisters!!!

Our Beloved Messenger, The Most Honorable and Humble Elijah Muhammad (May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah Forever Be Upon Him) taught us that a vegetarian diet is ideal for human beings, although we can eat fish. Fish is from a different world of life. Fish is born and fish lives in the water of life. Fish is good for us. (HOW TO EAT TO LIVE). However, we must be careful when selecting fish for our meals, confining our fish eating to those fish weighing between one and ten pounds.

When it comes to Salmon, there are many different varieties that vary in weight depending on the species. According to the Alaska Seafood Marketing Institute, Pink Salmon weighs the least of all varieties, averaging 3.5 – 4.0 lbs. So this would, obviously, be our ideal choice. Our Beloved Messenger (Peace Be Upon Him) recommended that we eat the smallest fish as possible.

There are other varieties of Salmon averaging less than ten pounds as well, however. Alaska Sockeye (Red) Salmon averages five lbs. and Alaska Keta Salmon averages eight lbs.

The species you want to avoid are Alaska Coho (Silver) Salmon which averages twelve lbs. and the largest breed, Alaska King Salmon, which averages 20 lbs.!

When dining out, be sure to inquire as to the breed of Salmon before ordering as King Salmon is the Salmon of choice for most upscale restaurants.

 

HOLY QUR-AN 4:131-134

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4:131 – And to Allah belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth. And certainly We enjoined those who were given the Book before you and (We enjoin) you too to keep your duty to Allah. And if you disbelieve, surely to Allah belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth. And Allah is ever Self-sufficient, Praiseworthy.

4:132 – And to Allah belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth. And Allah suffices as having charge of affairs.

4:133 – If He please, He will take you away, O people, and bring others. And Allah is ever Powerful to do that.

4:134 – Whoever desires the reward of this world – then with Allah is the reward of this world and the Hereafter. And Allah is ever Hearing, Seeing.

DECLINE OF THE DOLLAR

THE FALL OF AMERICA

The Fall of America

Chapter 20

Decline of the Dollar

     The strong-hold of the American Government is falling to pieces. She has lost her prestige among the nations of the earth. One of the greatest powers of America was her dollar. The loss of such power will bring any nation to weakness, for this is the media of exchange between nations. The English pound and the American dollar have been the power and beckoning light of these two great powers. But when the world went off the gold and silver standard, the financial doom of England and America was sealed.

     The pound has lost 50 percent of its value. America’s dollar has lost everything now as power backing for her currency, which was backed by gold for every $5 note and up. All of her currency was backed by silver, from a $1 note up.

     But today, the currency of America is not backed by any sound value – silver or gold. The note today is something that the government declares they will give you the value in return, but does not name what that value is. But they definitely are not backing their currency with silver or gold.

     This is the number-one fall, and it is very clear that the loss of the power of the American dollar means the loss of the financial power of America. What will happen since there is no sound backing for her notes we do not know.

     What should we expect even in the next twelve months under the fall of the power of America’s dollar? This means that we have 100 percent inflation. What could happen under 100 percent inflation? Your guess is as good as mine. The power of gold and silver was once abundant in America. But the touch of the finger of God against the power of so mighty a nation has now caused the crumbling and fall of America.

     We can easily and truthfully liken the fall of America to the prophetic symbolical picture given in the (Bible) Revelation of John 18:2. The name Babylon used there does not really say whether it is ancient Babylon or a picture of some future Babylon.

     The description it gives is as follows:

“And he (angel) cried mightily with a strong voice (with authority) saying, Babylon the great is fallen, is fallen and is become the habitation of devils, (Allah has declared the people to be a race of devils) and the hole of every foul spirit and a cage of every unclean and hateful bird.” The description here given to the Babylon by the prophets compares with the present history and people of America and their fall.

     The picture shows the cause of her fall. Number one, she had become the habitation of devils, and being the habitation of devils makes her a haven for every people that love the works and doings of the devil. Here the prophet refers to them, symbolically, as being a hole of every foul spirit, and a cage of every unclean and hateful bird.

     People are referred to as birds, snakes, beasts, fish and other animals to tell or represent the characteristics of that person. It is universally known that the very beginning of the American people was from the lower class of European people. And their first ruler (President Washington) was a fugitive from England. And the common, dissatisfied and lower grade of European people followed and boosted his authority. This filled and inhabited America with a very low class and low-based people.

     And then this type of people went into Africa and purchased slaves from among our people who were also uneducated, most of them; but there were a few who were highly educated. All of these began to mix with the low-based, evil-minded, real citizens of the Western Hemisphere (whites). And when America began to get strong in power, she opened her doors to the underprivileged (laborers) in overpopulated countries such as China, Japan, and in Europe to seek citizenship in America.

     This brought into America one of the most mixed people, who were granted the freedom to live any kind of life they chose. They were not forced to serve the God of the universe who made heaven and earth nor any religion. They had freedom of worship. This made America a haven for any people who wished to be free of the compellers of religious and just rule and authority. This people for the past five hundred years have put into practice every evil that is imaginable.

     The freedom of uncleanliness is granted and is worshiped. The percentage of sexual worship of the same sex is greater than any government on the face of the earth. Little children are being taught sex almost from the cradle, making the whole nation, as one man put it, “nearly 90 percent freaks of nature.”

     It is common to see on the streets of any metropolitan city of America men sweethearting with men and women sweethearting with women. Little boys with boys and little girls with girls.

     It is common that a decent family is puzzled as to where to send their children for schooling. There are no all-girl schools as there once were. They are all-girl schools of sweethearts; the same sex falling upon their own. Boys’ colleges are breeding such filthy practice; the jail houses, prisons, and the federal penitentiaries are all breeding dens of homosexuals.

     As the Prophet says in the 18th chapter; “She is a cage of every unclean and hateful bird.” There are types of hateful birds. This is why a symbolical name is given. It means human beings. There are birds of prey and birds that are unclean such as crows, owls, buzzards and ravens who live and thrive off the carcasses of others. And there are unclean people living and thriving off the unclean.

     It is time that God intervenes to bring about an end of such people as the wicked of America. She offers the same filth to all of the civilized of the earth, and she hates you if you are against her way of life and will threaten you with death as the Sodomites did Lot and his followers. But I say to you as the 4th verse of Revelations, Chapter 18 says: You that want to be a better people than this, “come out of her.”

     The so-called American Negroes are referred to here in the 4th verse as being God’s people (“My people”) “Come out of her…that ye be not partakers of her sins and that ye receive not of her plagues.”

     This is a call to the American so-called Negroes to give up a doomed, wicked people that has destroyed them from being a people worthy of recognition, and who have now become lovers of their enemies and destroyers.

     The 5th verse tells us that “Her sins have reached into heaven and God has remembered her iniquities and is ready to destroy her.” Her destruction cometh quickly, according to the 8th verse, that plagues of death, mourning and famines which cometh in one day (one year) then after that she shall be destroyed by fire, utterly burned.”

     This is backed up in these words: “Strong is the Lord God who judge her.” Here it gives us a knowledge that He who judges is well able with power, with wisdom, and with deliberate and careful maneuvering to make judgement against her.

***YOU CAN READ THIS BOOK IN ITS ENTIRETY HERE.***

 

DIVINE SAYINGS OF THE HONORABLE ELIJAH MUHAMMAD (PBUH)

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DIVINE SAYINGS OF THE HONORABLE ELIJAH MUHAMMAD (PBUH)


“When two people are together and are at peace, they are in heaven. What is above the peace of husband and wife?”

“The woman is man’s heaven”

“If you choose a man to be your husband, you should live together in perfect happiness especially if you choose him.”

“Islam goes as far back as the root of Mathematics. The root of Mathematics goes as far back as Islam”

“Fractions are taught to you first because you were a part then a whole.”

“We are the root of Mathematics. God Himself is Unit No. 1″

“The greatest heaven that you enter into on believing is a peace of mind and contentment”

“Islam is the circle of peace and the diameter of happiness”

“Above all man’s habits, peace is the most satisfying of his life.”

“He wanted a different human being than Himself, so He studied Himself. He made a woman by studying Himself. He made a woman secondly so this would solve His problem of a search for another man.”

“By nature the woman has a big job. She is the one who increases the Nation.”

“A mother by nature loves and admires her son because by nature she was made to honor and worship man”

“A man should love his family regardless to whom or what because it is part of himself.”

“The teachings of Islam does not force the woman in no way to go out and work. It is her job to stay at home and rear her children.”

“The Holy Qur’an teaches the woman to stay in the house and rear her children.”

“The Muslim woman goes natural. When you see her, you are looking at a natural beauty.”

 

 

The woman has learned that the man is more exalted before God than she because of her weakness.”

 

 

“Rear your children up in the Word of Allah. Allah Says, ‘Teach them of Me. Burn it into their hearts.'”

 

 

“As Hagar did not know that water was under the foot of her child, our people did not know wisdom was in a man under the devil’s feet.”

 

 

By the water rising up under the foot of Hagar’s child, this represents us rising up from the foot of civilization.”

“Everything written in the Bible is written to give us a picture of what is happening today.”

“If there is no moisture in the air there can be no sound. When objects fall through space you can’t hear them until they hit the atmosphere. Noise comes from objects striking the atmosphere with moisture in it.”

“If land is to make its appearance it must be made from water”

“The air is the force that makes the blood flow with the heart as the pump.”

“The Saviour gave me 104 books in the Congressional Library to study on Islam and the history of Muhammad”

“I visisted Mecca in 1959. The whole city was all a sign of my people being here in America. My mentally dead people will be the rulers”

“The veil of the Kaaba means that we were veiled from the Truth of Allah.”

“The devils claim that they are the children of God. Why does God punish you like this! He punishes those who are not his beloved.”

“Blessed are those who forge first to bring the way for others.”

“The sands and stars Abraham was told to count. This means Allah would raise up a nation that would be so fast in multiplying that the nations of the earth could not keep up with them.”

“The Light of God is the light of the Hereafter which will guide the people like the light of the sun.”

“When Allah Blesses you with His spirit you are a blessed person.”

“He (Allah) has placed a fountain in the House of Israel; drink.”

“Envy and jealousy will not make you successful.”

“There will be no end to your wisdom in the Hereafter.”

“A fool can always insult a civilized person, but a civlized person can’t insult a fool because it is not his nature.”

“Proudness is sickness. This is why we are divided. We will all be one or nothing.”

“The devil has made us a slave to falsehood.”

“To go into the Hereafter and join the heavenly society you have to give up this world.”

“If you want to talk to Allah, read the Quran.”

 

 

If you are my followers then seek the way through me.”

“If you are guilty inside, Allah brings the guilt out in your color. He makes your color to bear witness. The guilty person turns dark because his deeds are dark. Allah makes you to reflect your deeds. Why does God make our color to bear witness to what is in us? Because the blood is the life of us.”

“If you claim to carry a clean religion, you should be clean internally and externally.”

“The property of a Muslim is sacred. This is in the Law of Islam. This means all Muslims will do their best to protect your property.”

“When the first man created Himself, He was the light of the circle. Then He willed the sun into being… It was 6 trillion years between the making of the sun and the creation of man.”

“The  more you learn, the less you seek of self advantage.”

“Just be what you are and don’t try to put one over; then you will feel cheap.”

“THE TRUTH SEPARATES.

Allah sends a sun to separate the darkness from the day. “God did not create the sun, He made the sun. When you make something, you start from something. When you create something, you start from nothing.”

“Why do some planets have more moons than others? They have more area to control in Equality.”

“DON’T BE CAREFUL THAT YOU AGREE ON RIGHT, BUT BE CAREFUL THAT YOU DON’T AGREE ON WRONG.”

“Don’t withhold your good just because another withholds his good. You do your part.”

“Greeting the Muslim is binding upon you, if you do not your mind is not right.”

“Your children have to be prepared for a future they have not lived. You must shape your child. Lazy parents cannot make a child successful.”

“What we long for will finally appear.”

“The right medicine for the disease in our hearts is the Spirit of Allah.”

“Whenever we would rather sin and disobey Allah’s truth and guidance to make self clear then you are destroying self.”

“If you are dealing with truth, you are dealing with Allah.”

 

“Get in earnest with Allah.”

“Since Allah is The Master, Thee do we serve and to Thee do we beseech for help. I don’t have no other One to help me but You. If I need help I have to look to You. I don’t serve anyone but You. I am in my proper place as a servant. You are well able to help me. That is why I am your servant. Guide me on the right path. Now you have told Allah what path. Which is the right path? The one that Allah Blesses. The path of the righteous before me. Every word of the prayer means good.”

 

“I alone, God Has Risen Up to Teach a Dead Man.”

“Oh Allah, please let me continue to be a believer. And let no man deceive me and take away my reward.”

“Compiled from writings and conversations of the Honorable Elijah Muhammad by Sisters Anna Karriem and Captain Portia Pasha.”

BEST WAY TO SELECT SWEET & JUICY FRUIT – Smell. Squeeze. Inspect. Ask Allah. Select.

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beautiful and Health-Conscious Black Sisters!

I know Summer is nearly over, but I went to the store the other day and walked past some cantaloupe that smelled so good, that I couldn’t just walk past and NOT buy any. And I had not even planned on buying ANY fruit, but I’ve learned that if you walk past a fruit and the smell just pops out at you – BUY IT!!!

I GUARANTEE you are not going to be disappointed.

You always want to select the sweetest, juiciest and most flavorful of all the fruit that are being offered, so as with anything else, before you make your final selection, Ask Allah!


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He DELIGHTS in coming to our aid. He DELIGHTS in Guiding Us IN EVERYTHING WE DO. Make use of your Divine Resource, Sisters. He Helps Me With EVERYTHING. Every LITTLE thing. Even if it is something as trivial as, “SHOULD I READ THIS BOOK FIRST OR THE OTHER ONE?”

I have learned that it is always BEST to seek Allah’s Guidance in EVERY STEP YOU TAKE. If you take the wrong step, you will have strayed from The Path of Allah and everything you do after it will be wrong. But All Praises Are Due To Allah! All You Have To Do Is Say “Astagfirullah” (“Allah Forgive Me.”) And you can continue back on the Right Path.

Can you imagine what the world would be like if EVERYONE sought Allah’s Guidance in everything we do?

We would all live in UNITY and HARMONY and PEACE in submission to the Will of Allah. This is the NATURE of the Black Nation and ALL of Allah’s Creations, but we have an enemy that was NOT Created by The God of the Nation and they have made mischief and caused bloodshed the entire duration of their time on our Planet. I am referring to the white devil Caucasian race.

Allah is going to destroy them so that we can once again live in peace and harmony, but if we want to survive the destruction we must be one who submits to the Will of Allah. And we must begin now – before the destruction comes – to show that we are qualified to live in the next life. We have to prove our worthiness here and now – in this life.

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The Honorable Elijah Muhammad (May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah Forever Be Upon Him) Taught Us In How To Eat To Live that:

“Fruit is good for us. We should eat plenty fruits.”

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Here are some useful tips when selecting fruit.

#1 RULE – SMELL IT

If you smell it when you walk into the produce section – BUY IT!

I would say, even when you walk past it, if you smell it – BUY IT!

I always only buy the fruit that I smell. But if it is something that you just have to have:

SMELL IT – SQUEEZE IT – ASK ALLAH – SELECT IT.

WHOLE FRESH FRUIT

Whenever selecting fresh fruits and vegetables, don’t be afraid to LOOOOOOK. INSPECT EACH ONE METICULOUSLY BEFORE YOU PUT IT IN YOUR BAG. You know you are going to inspect it again before you eat it, and you don’t want any surprises. Check for signs of decay, bruises, soft spots and insect holes. If it is packaged and can be opened, open the package and inspect its contents fastidiously. Perfection is perfectly attainable if you refuse to settle for anything less.

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WATERMELON

Tap with four closed-fingers and listen for hollowness. If it sounds and feels like it’s empty on the inside – it’s good.

I’ll never forget returning from the farmer’s market, when my son, who was very little at the time, accidentally dropped a watermelon. And to my utter delight, it was YELLOW on the inside! I had never seen a yellow watermelon before and didn’t even know they existed. But according to Wisegeek, yellow and even white varieties of watermelon are even more ancient than the red! Watermelon are native to Africa. This explains why Black People in America are so fond of them.

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Don’t be afraid to purchase fruit for your family, INSTEAD OF JUNK! Your children can only eat what you buy. Stay out of those aisles and SHOP THE “U”. Fill your refrigerator with fruits and seeds (The shelled kind are cleaner. Master Fard Muhammad, to Whom Praises are Due Forever, was eating sunflower seeds when I met HIM, so they are my snack of choice). Stop buying chips, cookies and NEVER EAT NUTS. Fruits are delicious, versatile AND all good. Feed your family foods that will give life and not take life away.

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CANTALOUPE, ORANGES, HONEYDEW AND ANY FRUIT WITH A “NAVEL”

Smell The Navel. If it emits a powerful smell, it’s good. The stronger the smell, the better the fruit. If you don’t smell anything, it’s probably not going to be any good. Keep looking. And always ask Allah.

If you’re interested, I had a friend who swore that honeydew are a well-kept beauty secret among devils. I haven’t tested this theory, but they taste good enough to try. 😉 If you are up to the challenge, comment and let us know what you find.

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Mangoes are overwhelmingly the #1 choice fruit in the world. But you would be surprised to learn how many Black people have never tasted them. They are becoming more common among Black people, now that the street vendors are offering them. But if you want to purchase your own from the store, the first thing to look for before you even pick it up and squeeze it, is color. You want a fruit that is a combination of red and orange as in the picture. Honestly, I have never even seen a mango that looks like these pictured above. They usually have some green in them too. More like these:

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I would pick up the two on the bottom left – the one in the center first. Feel its firmness, then remove the stem stub, if necessary, and smell the location where I just removed the stub.

When you squeeze it, you want it to yield but not feel so soft that it’s mushy. It should be firm but not hard. Visualize how it will react when you slice into it. Same thing with Kiwi. kiwi_sliceI remember when Kiwi first started gaining popularity. Everybody went crazy because of its aesthetic interior. As a result, it became the fruit of choice for fruit salads. But after buying them as an adult I realized, I don’t like them, so I stopped buying them, much to my son’s disappointment! He LOVED them. That’s when I learned that I can’t just buy what I like. I have to buy what he likes too. That was new to me. Sisters, learn your family’s preferences and buy the foods that they like too.

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BANANA

Bananas depend on personal preference. Some people, like my grandmother, like them Black. I have found that the ones offered on the regular shelf are never ripe enough. The stores want you to buy them like that and make you wait for them to ripen when you get home. That’s greedy capitalism and not practical for us at all. You want to eat them when you get home! The good ones are the ones that have been marked down, they are usually the perfect ripeness. But because there is such a stigma attached to buying the “marked down” foods that I feel funny buying those. It looks like I can’t afford the regular priced ones. pffffff. Not after writing this. 😉

*A caution about bananas. If you eat too many they can cause constipation. I LOVED them as a child. I would eat them all day. I still remember putting the stickers on my forehead. LOL But I was always constipated. I didn’t think anything of it because I was young and children are not easily affected by things like that. I wasn’t, anyway. Not too long ago, my son asked me to make him some cooked carrots. I never liked them so I had never made them. But since he asked, I made them and he became constipated. So, I researched them and learned that both cooked carrots and bananas can cause constipation. So, eat them in moderation. And especially, if you are feeding them to your babies.

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CHERRIES

Another one of my favorite fruits, and unfortunately the most expensive. I think cherries were the inspiration for the popular saying among Black People: “The Darker the Berry, the Sweeter the Juice.”  Pick the dark ones.

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PERSIMMONS

Delicious firm or soft, but I have never had one that wasn’t sweet.

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STRAWBERRIES

I never really cared for strawberries until I was in the hospital giving birth to my daughter. It was the last day in May and they gave me the BEST strawberries I had ever tasted. I made everybody who came to visit take one. They were absolutely delectable! Ever since then I’ve bought them every Summer and ALWAYS if I smell them.

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BLUEBERRIES/BLACKBERRIES/RASPBERRIES

I don’t really like berries (except strawberries) unless I’m making something else and using them for added flavor. However, blueberries are my son’s favorite fruit. So, I buy them for him. I usually just let him taste one. But be cautious because it seems as if berries spoil faster than other fruits, so be sure and check for spoilage before you buy them.

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APPLES

So many different varieties! Apples are renown for their health benefits and since apple season is approaching, wisdom dictates taking advantage of their added nutrients!

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If you need help in deciding which kind you prefer at the moment, ask Allah for confirmation and then look for perfection. Smell each one and inspect them loooooking for any bruises, soft spots and insect holes. Always cut the skin off. It just tastes better. 😉

To get an idea and be better informed of the thousands of different varieties of apple, click here.

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PEARS

 Next to apples, pears are probably the most variegated fruit you’ll find in the grocery store. I prefer the crunchiness of Bosc. But if your palette demands something soft and juicier, go with Bartlett. Smell. Squeeze. Inspect. Ask Allah. Select. I found this interesting article on the many different varieties of pears.

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PLUMS

Plums are another fruit that my son loves that I don’t care for. Different people have different preferences. Some people, like my son, prefer tangy/tart flavors. So, I buy plums for him. They also come in different varieties and can be good firm or soft. I used to squeeze and mash them almost, before I ate them to make them really soft. I always just ask Allah, when decided which ones to purchase – red or black – or whatnot. After that I just look for bruises and soft spots, always seeking perfection.

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PINEAPPLES

If you don’t smell them when you walk past, don’t buy them. Pineapples have a very strong smell. You should be able to smell them as soon as you enter the produce section. Look for a yellow hue. Smell the bottom. Remove the leaves before you buy, if it is being sold by the pound. This will bring the cost down. Pineapples are my favorite fruit (along with mangoes) so, I did a little additional research on them and found this:

“The two features to watch for when selecting a pineapple are ripeness and deterioration. Ripeness is indicated by a bright yellow/gold color on the skin that at the very least should be present on the eyes around the base of the fruit. Though industry literature states that a fully ripe pineapple may be entirely green, ”mature green,” it is also true that it may not be ripe.

“Buying a fully green pineapple is risky. The stem end of the fruit has the highest sugar content and is the ripest portion. The higher up that yellow color goes, the more evenly a pineapple will be flavored. That color, plus a pleasant, mild pineapple aroma at the base are the best guides to ripeness. The surface of the pineapple should be firm and gently yielding to the touch. The ability to pull a leaf from the crown proves nothing about ripeness, despite the enduring popularity of that myth.

“Deterioration is marked by a wrinkled skin, a cushiony softness and an aroma of fermentation that suggests vinegar or acetone. An overripe pineapple may be green or a reddish bronze color. Other negative signs are leakage, mold, cracks, gumminess or softness, and brown, withered leaves. All pineapple is sprayed with a fungicide that dries the leaves somewhat, but they should remain fairly green and bright.”

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grapes

GRAPES

It is common enough and common sense enough to just open the bag and taste one. I know stores don’t like it, and I don’t like eating them without washing them, but one won’t hurt much, and I don’t care what the store employees nor the owners think because they are not the one who is going to be mad when I get home and taste them and find that they are sour. :/

As far as variety, I prefer Black grapes, but as long as they are sweet, that’s all that really matters. And if you really want a treat – FREEZE THEM. 😉

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PEACHES

I prefer nectarines to peaches, but my son likes peaches. Again, always smell them. You should be able to smell them as soon as you enter the produce section. Firm or soft? Depends on your preference. But sometimes peaches can be soft and dry on the inside, which unfortunately, you won’t know until you bite into it.

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nectarines

NECTARINES

I like nectarines that look just like this. They used to come really huge in the nineties. Now, I can’t find those big crunchy and juicy ones. They should be kind of bumpy and textured with spots, like the one on the far right. The harder the better. I used to LOVE biting into one of the big hard crunchy ones, but I fainted one day and fell and messed up my front tooth, so now I have to cut them. :/ It’s just not the same. 😦

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lemon

LEMONS

The fruit I am never without, but still haven’t figured out how to pick. I am starting to feel for softness, because the juice is what you want, so they have to be squeezable. Skin thickness doesn’t really seem to be a factor in juiciness, neither size. But, since soda is not good for you and my son and I cannot agree on juice, I just buy lemons and make lemonade with honey, which we both love. We also eat a lot of fish and they are indispensable for seasoning fish.

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HERE IS WHAT OUR BELOVED MESSENGER – THE HONORABLE ELIJAH MUHAMMAD (MAY THE PEACE AND THE BLESSINGS OF ALLAH FOREVER BE UPON HIM) WROTE CONCERNING FRUIT IN HOW TO EAT TO LIVE

“FRUITS – Fruits are all good and best for our consumption in their natural state. Fruits should never be cooked to get the better value out of them for our health. Fruits should be eaten raw and not cooked. The drying of fruits is only for preservation so that it can be eaten later but not with the value that it contained when it was fresh.”

VACUUM LINES

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

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As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum Beautiful and Beloved Asiatic Black Sisters!

A few years ago, I was blessed to receive a vacuum for free which I used until it broke. I threw it away before someone told me I could have had it repaired. But all praise is due to Allah. He Blessed me with new one and I had no idea vacuuming could be so pleasurable.

My old vacuum was probably from the 1900′ sand extremely difficult to use. I wrote a blog about a method Allah told me to try and discovered that made vacuuming much easier and more efficient. If you have an older model, it might make vacuuming less cumbersome if you try out this method.

In any case, I love looking at houses. Your house is your heaven, so you want it to be exactly to your liking. So, I enjoy looking at different designs (interior and exterior) to get ideas and decide exactly what I want for myself. Sometimes, Allah Has Other Plans, and HE is THE BEST PLANNER, but it’s still fun just to look.

One site, posted pictures comparing different designs in the carpet lines. And, I was awakened to a new style of decorating. I had never even thought of using carpet lines as a form of accenting the aesthetic of a room. But, why not?

It not only makes the room more beautiful, but it is also a tacit way of drawing everyone’s attention to the fact that your house is super-clean. 😉

Develop Good Habits

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

*Make up your bed as soon as you get out of it.*

*Do your grooming and get dressed, every day, regardless of whether you are planning to go

somewhere or not.*

*Do not leave your home unless it is completely clean. There is no better feeling in the world than coming home to a clean and fresh-smelling home. No one wants to come home to a dirty house. When you are planning to leave, always allot yourself a few minutes extra time to clean up and handle any unexpected issues that might arise before your scheduled departure time. This will well ensure your timeliness.*

On a side note, Black People are notorious for being late. This can be prevented by allowing yourself an exorbitant amount of time to get ready. Don’t give yourself the minimum amount of time to get dressed. Get up early enough to prepare to leave at a relaxed and leisurely pace. I was always rushed growing up and I don’t do rushed well at all. Then I stayed with my cousin one week while my parents were out of town and I was exposed to an entirely new way of getting up in the morning. JUST GET UP EARLIER! It’s so simple. And there’s no need to rush! Islam means “Peace” and there is nothing in the world more liberating and peaceful than the freedom from time restraints. The devil has everybody rushing because their time is up. But we will live forever, so there is no need to hurry for anything! We don’t even celebrate birthdays. What for? Are you planning on checking out sometime soon? What are you celebrating for? It’s so silly. The devil celebrates every year he lives because he knows he is going to be destroyed any day now. But why do you celebrate a wedding anniversary if you are going to be married for the rest of your life? :/

*Pray before leaving. This is the prayer I recite everytime I leave the house:
“Oh Allah! We Beseech Thy Help And Ask Thy Protection.
We Believe In Thee And Trust In Thee.

We Worship Thee In The BEST Manner
And We Thank Thee.
We Are Not Ungrateful To Thee
And We Cast Off And Forsake Him Who Disobeys Thee.
Oh Allah! Thee Do We Serve
And To Thee Do We Pray And Make Obeisance.
To Thee Do We Flee And We Are QUICK!
We Hope For Thy Mercy
And We Fear Thy Chastisement.
For Surely Thy Chastisement Overtakes The Unbelievers.
Ameen.”

*Ensure that you give yourself ample time to reach your destination, so that you won’t be in a rush while driving. There are too many reckless drivers out there already. Make sure you are not one of them. You want to be cautious and alert while driving and even if taking public transportation. Be extremely aware of your surroundings – the people and activities going on around you. I don’t drive over forty miles an hour. No, I don’t take the freeway either. I like to drive down residential streets and take in the beauty around me, which I may never have noticed before. I like looking at the houses. I got that from my father (An Architect. You always knew which house he had designed, because it was the BEST and FINEST house on the block. And I’m not just saying that because he’s my father. He wouldn’t even have to point it out.) But, that’s just me. Give yourself time for delays. You never know what you may run into (no pun intended) on your way to your destination. Try to arrive at least ten minutes before you are scheduled to be there. Then you KNOW you won’t be late, you won’t be pressed to find parking, you won’t appear disheveled when you make your entrance and you won’t have to make any excuses.*

*When you return home, put away shoes, jacket, purse, hats and keys immediately upon entering your house. That way they won’t be taunting you later. Just do it.*

*When preparing meals, wash used dishes and clean up as you go. That way you won’t have a dirty kitchen in the back of your mind while you’re trying to enjoy your meal. As an added benefit, upon completion of your meal, you will have the minimum amount of cleaning up to do.*

*ONLY eat at the table.*

*Schedule chore times. i.e. vacuum every morning and evening, have your son get into the habit of taking out the trash immediately after dinner, clean the toilet everytime you use it, clean the bathroom mirror after you do your grooming, clean the entire bathroom every night after your bath, dust every morning after you get dressed, prepare meals at the same time every day, &c.*

*Consider Ironing/Pressing clothes as the last step of laundering. In other words, don’t just hang your clothes. You are not finished until after they have been pressed.*

These are just some things I thought of. If you have any you would like to add, please leave a comment! Help your Sisters attain perfection with suggestions. Our Beloved Messenger, the Honorable Elijah Muhammad (May the Peace and the Blessings of Allah forever be upon him) taught us that, “We Must Have Regularity In Everything We Do.” This is for a reason. It makes your house run smoothly and peacefully, when everyone knows what to expect and what is expected of them.

I’ll never forget, one day, the manager was doing some work on our apartment, so I was taking a break from our schedule but after a while, my son asked the manager what time it was. He told him 4:00. So, then here comes my seven-year-old son, “Mom, it’s four o’clock, shouldn’t you be fixing dinner?” LOL